Another post from carer activist Matthew McKenzie. This blog is aimed at those caring for someone with cancer for the South West of London.
Exciting news!
If you are interested in future south west London lay representative roles.
Community Design Leads will help Royal Marsden Partners cancer alliance design future south west London lay representative roles for various cancer meetings.
They are looking for people who live in Richmond, Wandsworth, Merton, Kingston, Croydon and Sutton.
You will need to be able to attend:
Three 1.5 hour meetings – these will be online on Microsoft Teams on the following dates:
Thursday 14th September 1.45pm – 3.15pm, South West London Cancer Board
Thursday 12th October 3.30pm – 5pm, Clinical and Operational Board
Thursday 19th October 10.00-11.00am, Executive Board Meeting
Join a pre-meet for one hour before each meeting – to help you prepare
Join a follow up meeting for one hour after each meeting.
As a thank you for your time you will receive a £150 voucher.
Why they want to co-design these roles with you:
By working with local people to design these new lay member roles they can make sure they work well, that lay reps are supported, that they are able to contribute to the meetings effectively and make a difference.
You:
You don’t have to have had significant experience of using the NHS or being involved in formal board meetings to undertake this work. This is important that carers are included to shape services.
This is a great opportunity to:
share your experiences of the meetings,
make a difference and help us improve how we hear from local people, acting as lay members, in these meetings
help us understand what matters to people and our communities
enhance cancer related services for people across south west London.
To find out more about the role please contact Kath Malhotra for further information: 07801216768
If you are interested in the role please download and complete the form below and send to rmpartners.admin@nhs.net
Deadlines for applications: 30th August
Informal interviews will take place virtually on Wednesday 6th September.
Another blog from carer activist Matthew McKenzie highlighting an opportunity of joining a research project at Kings College London.
What is the purpose of the project?
Many people with a severe mental illness (SMI) may live with or be supported by a close relative or friend, whom can often be referred to as informal carers.
We know that caring for a relative with lived experience of SMI is an important and valued role that can be associated with many rewarding and positive experiences. We also know, however, that it can be associated with different challenges for which some can include exposure to aggression from their relative.
The purpose of the project is to trial a new group training programme for informal carers who have had times in their relationship when they have been exposed to aggression from the person they care for with SMI.
The researcher is inviting informal carers in SMI who have been exposed to aggression in their caregiving relationship, from the person they provide care for.
If you are happy to take part and the research team have answered any questions you have, you will be given an information sheet to keep and asked to sign a consent form.
Here is a brief outline of what you can expect from the group training:
An opportunity to meet other carers with similar experiences
Understanding of severe mental illness
Discussing communication skills
Discussing problem-solving and de-escalation skills
Discussing of strategies to promote positive wellbeing, support, and safety
Discussing of helpful resources and strategies to access support
If you have any questions or require more information about this study, please contact the researcher using the following contact details:
Lee Zi Min Beatrice, Clinical Psychologist in Training, ASB, Institute of Psychiatry, 4 Windsor Walk, London, SE5 8AZ
Welcome to another blog from carer activist Matthew McKenzie. I raise awareness of unpaid carers and run monthly groups aimed at those caring for someone suffering mental illness. I also starting to run groups for those caring for someone with cancer. Did you know I am also an NHS Citizen?
Health is so important to us, especially when you are caring for the health and wellbeing of your loved one or the person you are caring for. If anything goes wrong when booking appoinments, operations or navigating the health system then the affect can be life changing. NHS has provided free healthcare for around 75 years and long may that continue, but as this blog will raise there is a big ask aimed at carers and those they care for.
NHS England a cherished organisation for the people.
NHS England was the envy of the world. A great idea put into practice. Free healthcare for all, if you can or cannot afford it. A step forward for a society that values its people. It all starts with people, because people and communities are important to the health service.
The NHS is still loved by people, but the challenges it faces will test the patience of many. With long queues and ever changing systems. The NHS is asking for people to help drive the health service through tough waters.
What the NHS has gone through
The NHS has to own up. There are things within its control that could have made life easier for carers and the ‘cared for’. There were some decisions that took too long. Some projects that cost too much, some plans that never evolved. The NHS unfortunately also struggled with things outside its control as with the pandemic, funding issues, under valued staff and complicated structures getting outside its control.
All the above has led people to feel forgotten. The users of the NHS are feeling distant because their health is on the line. As a carer I often worry if my ‘cared for’ health might worsen. I worry they would have to join the endless queue where there is a gamble for their own health.
Yet, I still love the NHS. It is hard to imagine that free healthcare will turn into healthcare for those who can afford it.
Its not enough to love the NHS
As the title says. It is not enough to love the NHS. We are at the crossroads. I as an NHS Citizen ask carers to continue ti focus on what the NHS is doing. This means Nationally and locally. Not only is the ‘cared for’ health at stake, but our own health as a carer. The carer’s health is at risk, the carer identity can be missing. With our own worries, wellbeing and the risk we may fall unwell ourselves. The question asked is “how can you care for someone else, if your health causes you to give up caring?”.
We now need to take our cause to the next level and question again how the NHS serves us. There will be drives and targets to drive down waiting times for the NHS. The government and the NHS have to act, because people should not be made to suffer this way. The health services needs our help. We need to feedback what we feel is working and also feedback does not work.
This might sound boring and exhausting, you might even think that as a carer, you have heard all this before.
Yet the NHS is for you. As a carer, you should be counted!! Without unpaid carers, the NHS will sink into the abyss and now the NHS is depending on informal carers to provide quality of unpaid care.
The NHS will work to help identify, support and work with carers. The NHS cannot do this without input.
Help drive it
The NHS is huge. I am not kidding. You know the NHS has grown to be a complicated structure, because the populations needs have become complicated. We are living longer, this is part of the NHS successes. However the complexities of the population comes at a cost. Loving your health service is not enough. Hold the NHS to account, question what providers are doing. If they do not engage with carers, then unpaid carers need to engage with the NHS.
As carers we have the right to help drive the NHS. The health service is ours, but not by right and certainly not by an ideal. We have to work for the health service to work for us.
I will not lie. The keyword is “work” and this will be hard work.
Feedback
The most simple way to get involved in shaping and driving the NHS is to feedback. Do not be silent and cope as a carer. Tell the health service what affects you. Let the NHS know that as a carer, you should be counted.
You should not be ignored, because you want to see the best support for your ‘loved one’. If you are supported to care, then in turn this supports the NHS.
What are your providers up to?
There will be new ideas, new projects and new ways of engagement. Most of all there will be new ways of providing a service. I do not have the answers, all I know is that waiting lists have to be driven down to acceptable levels. Too long people have suffered waiting for operations.
Too long carers have been missed out and expected to get on with it. What are your Integrated Care Boards up to? Where is that money being spent? As a carer, do you know something that could help the community of unpaid carers? Its about engagement and it is also about holding to account. We need to work together.
It starts with you because
It starts with you because you are a citizen. It starts with you because as a person it is your right to healthcare. It is also your right to healthcare for your ‘cared for’. As a carer, you have those ideas that can help the NHS.
You have seen how healthcare supports and treats you and the person you care for. We love the NHS and we only ask the NHS to care for us. However, It is not enough to love the NHS, it is now time to value the NHS. It is time to fight for it.
I cannot promise the outcome, things will change for the better and some things will be challenging. Still, as a carer activist, I ask carers to stand up and be counted.
Hello fellow carers, another blog from carer activist Matthew McKenzie. A lot of my groups focus on those caring for someone with mental ill health or caring for someone going through the stages of cancer. As you probably know, caring for someone should be a role that we look towards. This does come with challenges, but most carers can even expect to go through tough times. These challenges could mean adapting to a role that could be isolating, difficult to understand and emotionally as well as physically taxing.
Being an unpaid carer means you doing what you do because you love and care for the persons health and wellbeing. It is unfortunate that the cost of living has made the unpaid caring role an increasing challenge. With reports from National carer organisations like Carers Trust and Carers UK, the cost of living has pushed carers towards a more vulnerable position. Struggling financially to make ends meet could be the last straw that breaks the back of many carers.
We all know the sad desperate story. We want a society that emphasis the importance of caring for one another. It should not be left to someone else. Health and social care are under resourced and are under increased pressure, this means the role of the carer is a crucial cog in the wheel. The NHS cannot expect to care for us all and we will have to face the fact that carers will have to be supported as a vital part of the health and social care system.
Awareness of the carer role is not enough as more discussion, debate and finally action should be taken up at the highest level. A lot of the awareness is down to education. As in educating others that they should not have to cope in caring for a difficult role. There needs to be education and research on what could make life easier for carers. Policies will need careful consideration to serve the ever increasing society of carers.
Fortunately we have a high quality platform looking to provide a debate on this issue.
Public Policy Exchange produces and delivers high quality conferences and interactive seminars which provide an invaluable interface for policy discussion, debate and networking.
Their speakers are unrivalled in calibre, ranging from Government Ministers and Senior Whitehall Officials to leading Local Authority figures and Voluntary Sector representatives.
For August the 17th they have an exciting event titled “Informal Carers: Providing Critical Support to Carers During a Cost-of-Living Crisis and Beyond”.
There will be the following speakers, where some are from my carers network
Key Speakers
Wendy Chamberlain MP, Liberal Democrat Spokesperson for Work and Pensions & Sponsor of the Carer’s Leave Bill, now the Carer’s Leave Act 2023
Krista Sharp, Chief Executive of MYTIME Young Carers
Professor Michele Peters, Associate Professor at the Health Services Research Unit, University of Oxford (Event Chair)
Dr Sally Wilson, Principal Research Fellow at the Institute for Employment Studies (IES)
Dr Siobhan O’Dwyer, Associate Professor in Adult Social Care at the University of Birmingham
Richard Meade, Director of Carers Scotland and Northern Ireland
Zarina Camal, Carer
Faith Smith, Carer
With such a high range of speakers, it is a shame I cannot be present to hear thoughts and views that affect the caring role. So I am hoping those in attendance feedback to our carer network. I am glad that those who are to present at the webinar speak highly of the caring role.
If you want to hear more about this important debate affecting unpaid carers. See the link below.
A Caring Mind 