Caring can be difficult, especially if the role comes on unexpected. You have to be there for someone, find out what the symptoms are and do your best to help improve quality of life. It could happen to any of us, but the challenge is not all of us want to care and there are times when it is ok back away from the role.

What is more challenging is developing a community that cares. How can a caring community relate to someone who tries to be there for others?

We are all connected and we all have needs in a society that has become increasingly complex. We do not know what is around the corner, all we can do is try to be there for each other. As with unpaid carers, we cannot fully depend upon health and social care, there will be times when we have to be resourceful to support one another.

This is the same for communities. We cannot always depend upon others to be there when times get tough, yet we are all connected.

Civilisation, democracy, freedom and law can often be fragile and can break just like the branches of a tree. The branch can sway this way and that, but the wind of change can blow like a hurricane to cause the branch to break.

So we may find before long that we have to pick up the pieces.

The thing I am trying to get at is caring is not enough. Caring for a loved one might set an example, but unfortunately I have learnt that more examples need to be set. We need a society that cares. We need a community that values being there for others. A caring community can bring so much for inclusiveness, caring, learning from others and standing up for what is right.

We are all connected as for one day we will either care or be cared for. There is value in being there for others, no matter what uncertainty the future brings. There is value of giving just a little bit more in volunteering and sharing our common ideals. A caring society seeks out what is common for all of us, not what makes us all different. We all have the same needs, the same dreams and we all want to belong.

Caring can be difficult, it can demand sacrifices, energy and time. In the end who can say it is worth the effort? All I know is caring will benefit everyone as we are all connected.

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