Supporting unpaid carers is a greatly unrecognized yet profoundly impactful endeavor. In our latest interview from a series dedicated to highlighting those who go out of their way to aid and uplift unpaid carers, Matthew McKenzie had the opportunity to speak with Ionie Hughes.

Ionie talked about how she tries to reach parent carers through her charity, Socialising Angels, which is a C.I.C that was created to help reduce isolation, which focuses to help young adults with social, emotional and mental health needs.

You can watch the full interview below.

Drawing from her personal experiences and relentless advocacy, Ionie provides invaluable insight into the unique challenges and necessities of unpaid carers. Below, we delve into Ionie’s story, her organization, and the far-reaching influence of her work.

Training and Positive Influence

Ionie is trained in Rational Emotional Behavior Therapy, reinforcing her belief that altering one’s mindset and belief systems is crucial for overcoming challenges. She emphasizes positive thinking and speech, offering powerful encouragement and practical advice to other carers. Her ability to balance personal experience with professional training enhances her effectiveness as a support figure.

Socializing Angels: A Community Endeavor

About the Organization

Socializing Angels CIC, founded by Ionie in 2022 and operational since 2023, is based in Brixton. The organization aims to bring young adults with various disabilities into the community, providing them with social engagement opportunities. This initiative not only enriches the lives of the young adults but also offers respite to their parent carers.

Challenges of Running a Non-Profit

Running a community interest company like Socializing Angels comes with its own set of challenges. As the CEO, Ionie juggles multiple responsibilities without financial compensation, as most of the organization’s funds are directed toward service provision. The startup phase of the CIC is heavily reliant on external funding and the dedication of its founder.

Ionie’s work extends beyond service provision for her own son to advocating for and supporting other young adults and their families. This dual role often leads to overwhelming exhaustion and the risk of burnout. However, her steadfast commitment to both her son and her organization underscores the dedication and resilience inherent to unpaid carers.

The Unseen Challenges of Unpaid Carers

Daily Struggles and Lack of Recognition

Unpaid carers perform a plethora of tasks around the clock, often without recognition or financial remuneration. Their roles are multifaceted, ranging from advocacy to personal assistance and emotional support.

Ionie points out that unpaid carers frequently experience burnout due to the nonstop nature of their responsibilities. The mental toll of continually advocating and caring for a loved one, compounded by the financial strain of a cost-of-living crisis, is immense.

Integrity and Unwavering Commitment

Despite these challenges, the integrity and love that motivate unpaid carers are evident. They dedicate themselves selflessly to the welfare of others, driven by an unwavering commitment to their loved ones. This spirit of selflessness is emblematic of the unpaid carer community.

Essential Skills for Carer Outreach

Knowledge of Community Resources

For carers seeking to make a difference, understanding the community landscape is crucial. This involves attending meetings, forums, and various community events to stay informed and engaged. Personal interactions and shared experiences are key elements in creating a supportive network.

Empathy, Compassion, and Understanding

Ionie highlights the importance of empathy, compassion, and active listening in supporting fellow carers. Building a rapport and a community based on mutual understanding and shared experiences can provide both practical support and emotional solace.

Personal Experience and Advocacy

Personal experience is a powerful tool in advocacy. Ionie’s own journey has been instrumental in shaping her ability to help others. By sharing her story and the strategies that have worked for her, she provides a valuable blueprint for other carers seeking guidance and support.

Conclusion

Ionie Hughes’ journey and dedication shine a spotlight on the often-overlooked world of unpaid carers. Her relentless advocacy, personal sacrifices, and the establishment of Socializing Angels CIC stand as a testament to the incredible impact one person can have in making the world a more inclusive and supportive place.

Through recognizing and addressing the challenges faced by unpaid carers, we can begin to create a more understanding and supportive environment. It is imperative to appreciate and uplift those who selflessly dedicate their lives to the care of others, often without any form of compensation or recognition. Ionie’s story is a powerful reminder of the strength and resilience that define the carer community.