Hello, welcome to my latest blog. This particular blog is aimed at carers. This post hopes to be an inspirational message for anyone who is caring for a family friend or even a neighbour.
This post looks at promoting your voice as a carer. As a carer by our role, we give up so much and sometimes expect little, by definition health services and sometimes social services are aimed at the patient. Policies and laws can often assume that the family and carer are strong enough to cope by themselves.
Still, think about all the hard work energy and love you provide in caring for your loved one. No one else can tell you how to do your job, although they can provide some insight and maybe some support. So it is quite important that you use your voice as a carer to let others know how important you are in regards to services and policies.
Its all about Carer’s Voices
The risk is far too great if a carer does not speak out. Not only is the patient’s life or quality of life is at risk, but also the carer can suffer declining quality of life. When carers get desperate, they begin to risk so much and sacrifice so much such as time and energy. It is vital that you as a carer speak up, network and engage.
I am not only just asking you to speak up because your welfare depends on it. I am asking you to promote your voice because you should be valued as a carer. Just because you are a carer, does not mean that you should be ashamed to be a carer. Carers should be championed and valued for the things that they do for the family. If the community can learn from carers then we have a caring community.
Considering carers are unpaid, this is the least that carers can deserve. We should be encouraged to promote our voices, be it at events, forums, carer support groups, meetings and consultations. Carers should try to get out there and make a difference. Remember no one can tell you how to do your role, however they can advise.
Your caring experience is your own
Just as no one can fully tell you what to do, no one can fully understand what you are going through. No one can wear your shoes as you walk that difficult path in support in your loved ones journey through the health system. The emotional and physical turmoil a carer can go through cannot be fully understood, so it is vitally important that as a carer you speak out and get your voice promoted.
Sometimes as a carer we can be impatient and want change to happen straight away, but we must be practical considering the harsh changes is going through the NHS and social welfare system. Constant turnover of NHS staff can listen resources and support for carers. We need to realise that Rome was not built in a day. As carers we seek engagement, involvement and empowerment. Most carers will try their hardest not to harass and hassle those responsible for services, but unfortunately at the same time we do not want things to drag on and carers welfare is not Limitless.
What services need to try and do regarding carers
I will make this as brief as possible, i’ll make this as gentle as possible. As carers, we want services to celebrate us. We do not want services to be scared of hearing carers voices. We want services to involve a so much that it seems like we are part of the team. Services should try to seek carers views. Services should try to engage with carers and invite them to service provision changes.
As carers we do not want services to keep referring carers on, we do not want services to keep passing the buck. We do not want services to be embarrassed of carers or afraid of carers.
Due to these difficult times, as carers we must recognise that caring is just not enough. We must push our voices for more care support and work with those to get more better or creative services that help in the Caring role.
Learning from each other
As a carer please be interested in what the NHS is doing for you and the person you care for. Do not assume that the NHS is the expert in family and community care. We must all work together to enhance health and wellbeing in the family and in the community and eventually in Society.
Remember as a carer you deserve to be valued and championed, it is all about community and bringing out the best in ourselves. So think about using your voice as a carer to get your voice promoted.Embed from Getty Images