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National Grief Awareness Week 2025: Growing With Grief

By Matthew McKenzie, A Caring Mind

This week, we come together to recognise something deeply human, yet often hidden: grief and the people who carry it long after the world has moved on.

I’ve created a short video exploring the emotional reality of bereavement, with a special focus on unpaid carers. These are the people who quietly give their time, energy, and love to support someone through illness… and who are often left to grieve in silence when that journey ends.

My hope is that this helps spark conversations, reduce stigma, and remind anyone grieving that you are not alone.


If you or someone you know needs support, these organisations can help:

🔗 The Good Grief Trusthttps://www.thegoodgrieftrust.org
🔗 AtaLosshttps://www.ataloss.org
🔗 Muslim Bereavement Support Servicehttps://www.mbss.org.uk
🔗 Jewish Bereavement Counselling Servicehttps://jbcs.org.uk
🔗 The Ubele Initiative (African & Caribbean communities)https://www.ubele.org
🔗 Cruse Bereavement Support – South Asian Support (via specially trained volunteers)https://www.cruse.org.uk
🔗 Switchboard LGBT+ Bereavement Supporthttps://switchboard.lgbt


Let’s work together to make sure every bereaved person, especially unpaid carers so they is heard, supported, and understood.
#GrowingWithGrief | #GriefSupport | #UnpaidCarers | #Wellbeing

“Listen to Me” – A Carer’s Plea Turned into Song

Caring for someone with a mental illness is an emotional, often isolating experience. Unpaid carers—whether they are family members, friends, or loved ones—carry immense responsibility, yet their voices can feel unheard, especially within the healthcare system.

One of my poem’s “On Being Heard” taken from my book The Poetry Book of Mental Health Caring, captures this struggle with raw honesty.

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How NHS Professionals Can Show Compassion and Value Unpaid Carers

Unpaid carers play an essential role in our healthcare system, especially for those dealing with mental ill health or long-term cancer care. Matthew McKenzie’s lecture brings much-needed attention to the critical role unpaid carers play and offers insights for both healthcare professionals and family members on how to better support these individuals. Let’s delve into key aspects highlighted in the lecture aimed at care awareness and support.

To watch a more indepth version please see the video below.


The Importance of Acknowledging and Valuing Carers

Unpaid carers are often the closest relatives or friends of the patient and have substantial insights about the patient’s history, symptoms, and what has worked best in their care journey.

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