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Breast Cancer Awareness Month 2025: Support & Solidarity

By Matthew McKenzie – Facilitator of cancer carer forum

Breast Cancer Awareness

October marks Breast Cancer Awareness Month in the UK, which is a time not only to focus on the disease itself but also to recognize the people whose lives are touched by breast cancer.

Awareness campaigns often center on early detection and medical advances, but the human stories behind the statistics are equally vital. Patients, families, and carers form a network of support, resilience, and hope, and their experiences deserve to be at the heart of our conversations.

Just to note, the blog is a transcript of my video below.

The Scope of Breast Cancer in the UK

Breast cancer affects tens of thousands of people every year in the UK, according to organizations like Macmillan Cancer Support. The impact is widespread, touching individuals from all walks of life. While medical statistics and research are essential, it’s crucial to remember that behind every diagnosis is a person navigating a complex journey often with the help of loved ones and caregivers.

Practical Steps for Individuals and Communities

How You Can Make a Difference

  • Get to know your body: Regular self-examination and awareness of changes are key.
  • Seek medical advice: Don’t ignore persistent changes—early action is vital.
  • Share information: Spread reliable, accurate information about breast cancer.
  • Support carers: Recognize their role and offer practical and emotional support.
  • Join or create support networks: Forums, peer groups, and information hubs can make a big difference.
  • Promote solidarity: Wear pink, share stories, and show support.
  • Advocate for better services: Engage with local authorities and healthcare providers to improve access and support.

Building a Supportive Environment

Creating a supportive environment for patients and carers involves more than just medical care. It’s about fostering connections, offering respite, and ensuring that everyone feels included and valued.

Standing Firm in Power and Pride — A Certitude Black History Month 2025 Celebration

By Matthew McKenzie – Mental Health Carer Activist

As a carer and mental health advocate, I often see how culture, identity, and lived experience shape the stories we tell and the way we support one another. Recently, I attended a remarkable Black History Month event hosted by Certitude, although I could not stay long, I left feeling inspired, proud, and deeply reflective about the intersections between culture, community, and care.

The Black History Month event was held at Bruce Kenrick House on the 16th of October 2025

About Certitude

Certitude is one of London’s leading social care providers, supporting people with learning disabilities, autism, and mental health needs to live fulfilled and independent lives. What makes Certitude special is its person-centred approach celebrating individuality, empowering self-expression, and ensuring that everyone, regardless of background, has the opportunity to thrive.

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What Makes for Meaningful Carer Involvement?

By Matthew McKenzie FRSA BEM, Chair, Triangle of Care Community Group

This week’s Triangle of Care Member Webinar, hosted by Carers Trust, which focused on a vital question: What makes for meaningful carer involvement?

We heard from across the Triangle of Care network, these being carers, professionals, and trust representatives coming together to share what genuine involvement looks like in practice.

I spoke about my own lived experience as a carer, supporting two non-verbal brothers with autism and my late mother with mental health challenges and how this journey has shaped my advocacy for stronger partnerships between carers and professionals.

Over the years, through the Triangle of Care, I’ve seen how much difference early and equal involvement can make.

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Celebrating Unpaid Carers – A Night of Recognition

By Matthew McKenzie – Carer champion

On Friday 12th September 2025, I had the privilege of attending Abilities Development’s Awards Night: Celebrating Unpaid Carers at The Grange in London. The event was a moving and powerful reminder of the sacrifices, love, and resilience shown by unpaid carers across our communities.

The event was hosted by founder Dr Karen May, who spoke passionately about the vision to celebrate and support unpaid carers. The evening also included tributes from fellow carers sharing their lived experiences, moving reflections on the sacrifices and strength carers show daily, and recognition from community leaders.

As many of you know, unpaid carers often go unseen, their daily contributions hidden behind closed doors. Yet they carry the heavy responsibilities of looking after loved ones with compassion and strength, often without formal recognition. This event was different, it put carers at the centre, reminding us all that their efforts matter and deserve to be celebrated.

We were given a tour of the facilities available for unpaid carers and their loved ones to us.

One of the highlights of the evening was the presentation of awards and certificates to unpaid carers. Each recipient was honoured with a Certificate of Honour in Caregiving, recognising their unconditional love, tireless dedication, and the invaluable role they play in supporting their loved ones without financial reward or formal recognition.

The evening, attended by the Mayor of Brent and other distinguished guests, was filled with speeches that spoke to the heart of caregiving, its challenges, its emotional toll, but also its incredible strength. One message that stood out was that carers must not forget their own worth and wellbeing. As was beautifully said on the night: “You are important. Take moments for yourself so you can rejuvenate, be well, and stay healthy.”

I was truly honoured to receive a Certificate of Honour in Caregiving myself. This certificate recognised the unconditional love and tireless dedication of carers who, without pay or recognition, give their heart, time, and energy to provide comfort, dignity, and hope. Holding it in my hands was not just a personal moment of pride, but also a reminder of the countless carers whose work too often goes unnoticed

Events like these are not “just another event.” They are opportunities to create legacies and spaces where carers are not only seen but also valued, uplifted, and supported. They are about passing on the message to future generations that caring is not a burden, but a profound act of humanity.

As someone who has long campaigned for carers’ voices, I want to encourage others to support, promote, and attend events like this. Whether it’s through organisations like Abilities Development, local carer networks, or even small community groups, recognising unpaid carers is vital.

To every unpaid carer reading this: you are a quiet hero. Every sleepless night, every whispered prayer, every act of kindness you show it matters. You matter.

Carers can book to use The Grange by contacting Abilities Development directly. Whether it’s for a quiet space to reflect, joining a carers’ group, or making use of tailored support services, The Grange offers a safe environment built around compassion and community.

Email: admin@abilitiesdevelopment.com

Power, Pride, Progress: A Celebration of Black History Month 2025

By Matthew McKenzie – Facilitator of national ethnic carer forum

Black History Month 2025 is not far behind, this blog celebrates the spirit of “Standing Firm in Power and Pride.” The video. hosted by Matthew McKenzie, founder of the National Ethnic Mental Health Carer Forum invites viewers on a reflective and inspiring journey through history, identity, and purpose.

Unpacking the Theme: Power and Pride

“Power” in Black History Month isn’t about titles, it’s about leadership that uplifts communities, resistance that shapes policy, and vision that transcends obstacles. From political trailblazers to artists and educators, Black leaders have transformed the narrative of equity.

“Pride” stands for cultural identity, heritage, and the vibrant legacy of Black excellence across generations. It pulses through art, storytelling, music, and traditions that echo forward. This month invites us to embrace that heritage without reservation or apology.

Call to Action: Watch, Reflect, and Share

We invite you to watch the video, reflect on its message, and share it widely. Encourage your community. friends, family, colleagues to stand firm in their own power and pride. Let’s amplify these voices and build bridges toward an inclusive future.

Commemorating Groundbreaking Milestones

This year holds special significance:

  • The 60th Anniversary of the Race Relations Act — a pivotal moment in Britain’s legislative effort to combat racial inequality.
  • Remembering Malcolm X — whose courage and conviction continue to inspire global movements for justice.
  • The 80th Anniversary of the Fifth Pan-African Congress — where visionaries like W. E. B. Du Bois, Kwame Nkrumah, and Amy Ashwood Garvey united to confront colonial oppression.
  • Honouring Paul Stephenson OBE — leader of the 1963 Bristol Bus Boycott.
  • Honouring Lord Herman Ouseley — instrumental in advancing Britain’s approach to institutional equality.

Their legacies reinforce that our present progress is rooted in collective courage and unwavering solidarity.

Why This Matters for Mental Health and Carers

At the core of the National Ethnic Mental Health Carer Forum’s mission is the recognition that cultural heritage and identity are integral to wellness and caregiving. It’s a call to action. It urges us to:

  • Break down barriers that impact mental health support.
  • Cultivate environments where cultural pride is part of healing.
  • Celebrate carers, families, and communities who carry resilience forward every day.

I hope the month brings us together, brings communities together to celebrate black history. Thanks for reading.

Your Voice Matters: Join the Ethnicity and Breast Cancer PPI Group

By Matthew McKenzie (facilitator of National cancer carer forum) – Caring Mind

As someone passionate about involvement and health inequalities, I’m always eager to spotlight opportunities where diverse voices can drive real change. One such opportunity is currently open through a vital new research initiative led by Oxford Population Health and Cancer Research UK.

Why This Study Matters

Breast cancer affects thousands of women every year, but not all communities are impacted equally. The risks, experiences, and outcomes can vary significantly based on ethnicity – yet we still don’t have enough evidence explaining why.

This is why Oxford researchers are launching a new study to explore how breast cancer affects women from different ethnic backgrounds, particularly African, Caribbean, Indian, Pakistani, and White British communities.

The aim is simple but essential: to improve breast cancer care for all women by understanding how ethnicity influences diagnosis, treatment, and risk.

How You Can Get Involved

The team is inviting women with personal experience of breast cancer or even those who have a strong interest in the topic to join their Patient and Public Involvement (PPI) Group.

If selected, you’ll have the opportunity to:

  • Share your insights in online meetings that shape how the research is done.
  • Help communicate findings back to the community in a clear and accessible way.
  • Co-develop tools and resources that empower women from all backgrounds.

This is your chance to ensure the voices of underrepresented communities are heard in life-changing research.

Why Your Voice Is So Important

As someone who has spent years advocating for marginalised communities, I can’t stress this enough: Representation in research leads to better outcomes. If women from diverse ethnic backgrounds aren’t involved in shaping breast cancer studies, critical insights will be lost and the same inequalities will continue.

By joining the PPI group, you’re not just helping researchers you’re helping your community. Your lived experience, your culture, your understanding of the challenges women face all of that brings invaluable richness to the study.

Interested? Here’s How to Take Part

If you’re ready to help shape a more inclusive and impactful breast cancer study:

🔹 Visit: https://www.ceu.ox.ac.uk/research/ethnicity-and-breast-cancer
🔹 Email: ethnicityandbreastcancer@ndph.ox.ac.uk
🔹 Or scan the QR code in the flyer shown below to express interest.

Let’s help amplify unheard voices in cancer research. Representation starts with involvement. Let’s be part of the change.

Triangle of Care Community Meeting: July 2025 update

On 21st of July 2025, carers, professionals, and stakeholders from across the UK gathered virtually for the latest Triangle of Care (ToC) Community Meeting. Chaired by Matthew McKenzie, this session was packed with insight, action points, and open dialogue. Whether you were new to the group or a long-time contributor, there was something valuable for everyone.

This meeting was particularly significant as it marked a turning point for carer participation. The formal recognition of the community group in ToC’s national governance structure. It affirmed that carer lived experience should not be sidelined, and that carers must continue to shape mental health services from the inside out.

If you weren’t able to attend, this blog will bring you up to speed. As the ToC community group covered a wide range of topics, from updates on national strategy and governance, to inclusive language, carer-led training, and advocacy for better research funding. At the heart of it all was a single message: when carers unite, systems must listen.

Official Recognition and Governance Progress

We are delighted to announce that the Triangle of Care Community Group is now formally integrated into the Triangle of Care governance structure. This gives the group a direct route to influence national decisions. The community will now sit alongside steering and regional groups in shaping policy, reviewing practices, and helping determine what carer inclusion should look like across all participating trusts.

What this means practically is improved alignment and visibility. For years, many carers and grassroots contributors have worked tirelessly behind the scenes, often without formal platforms. This change allows community voices to be heard before decisions are made not just consulted afterwards. Matthew described this shift as “a recognition of the years of unpaid care, leadership, and advocacy carers have always provided.”

It also means that our meetings will align with national timelines and decisions, ensuring a timely flow of updates between local groups, regional networks, and national forums. This is a pivotal opportunity to embed carers more meaningfully into NHS structures and accountability.

New Mailing List & Sign-Up System

Mary Patel from Carers Trust announced the launch of a new centralised mailing list for Triangle of Care community members. This will make sure everyone receives meeting invites, resources, and updates reliably. Participants will soon be asked to complete a Microsoft sign-up form, which will securely transfer contact details onto the Carers Trust system for ongoing communications.

The form will include a few demographic questions to help build a picture of the diversity within the ToC community. These questions are entirely optional but are designed to help Carers Trust identify who is engaging, and where gaps might exist—ensuring outreach strategies reflect real needs. For example, better regional balance, or increased visibility for underrepresented carer groups.

There was also discussion about moving from Zoom to Microsoft Teams for future meetings. Teams offers benefits like attendance tracking, secure file sharing, and easier scheduling. However, this won’t be a forced change, Matthew and Mary invited feedback, emphasising that any transition would be made collaboratively with community input.

Stronger Carer Involvement

Carer involvement was at the heart of the meeting. Matthew shared a passionate update on the need for carers particularly those from minority backgrounds or marginalised communities to step forward and engage in all aspects of the Triangle of Care. This includes involvement in peer reviews, shaping surveys, and suggesting new training or webinar content that reflects their lived experience.

The community was reminded that leading change doesn’t require a title or formal position. Sharing your story, participating in surveys, or simply raising your hand during a meeting is a form of leadership. Matthew emphasised that carers hold the kind of insight that no policy or textbook can replicate. As he put it, “This community is only as strong as the carers who show up.”

Peer reviewing was especially encouraged. Carers can play a vital role in reviewing mental health trust practices and making sure those trusts aren’t just ticking boxes but are genuinely improving the carer experience. Anyone interested in joining these review panels was invited to contact Mary Patel directly. The experience is meaningful and empowering and it places carers right where they should be: in positions of influence.

CQC Expectations and Carer Experiences

A powerful part of the meeting focused on the role of the Care Quality Commission (CQC) and how effectively it monitors carer inclusion in mental health services. Several carers and professionals shared their experiences some positive, others deeply concerning about how the CQC engages (or fails to engage) with carers during inspections.

A senior experience lead from an acute trust, explained that when CQC inspectors review services, they typically look for a clear carers policy, systems for identifying and supporting carers, and evidence of staff training. However, the level of scrutiny and the quality of carer-related feedback can vary significantly between inspections. The experience lead noted that while policy is important, it’s the systems around those policies that really matter, things like whether staff actually follow them, and whether carers know where to go for help.

Carers in the meeting shared contrasting experiences. A carer described a disappointing CQC visit where the inspector seemed dismissive, rushed, and uninformed about carers’ rights. Her feedback about lack of communication and exclusion was barely acknowledged, leaving her feeling invalidated. In contrast, Another carer spoke of a more recent inspection where the CQC officer seemed empathetic, asked thoughtful questions, and even disclosed their own possible caring experience. These differing accounts highlighted a common theme: carers’ confidence in the CQC is mixed, and their approach to carers can sometimes feel inconsistent.

There was strong consensus that CQC needs better training in carer engagement and not just understanding legal frameworks like the Care Act 2014, but also how to meaningfully include carers in service reviews. Kelvin added that cultural competence should also be part of the equation, noting that carers from minority backgrounds are too often left out of consultations. Matthew urged carers not to wait for trusts to invite them to speak during inspections ask to be involved, request to meet inspectors, and use carers’ councils or governors to raise visibility. It was clear from this session that carers want the CQC to be more than a compliance body, they want it to be a true advocate for accountability and equity in care.

Confidentiality Roadshow by Donna Bradford

A standout session was led by Donna Bradford, who presented her team’s work on the Confidentiality Roadshow a training programme developed by Lincolnshire Partnership NHS Foundation Trust. Designed to upskill staff on consent, confidentiality, and communication, the roadshow is tailored around carer inclusion and co-produced with the Carers Council.

The training helps staff understand not only what they can share legally, but also how to navigate nuanced emotional and ethical situations with carers. Donna reminded attendees that sharing basic, non-confidential information, such as medication side effects, is not only lawful but essential. “If you can Google it, you can say it,” she noted, driving home the importance of clarity over confusion.

Over 550 staff have already received the training, with 100% reporting that it improved their confidence. The programme includes real-life carer scenarios, emotional video testimonials, and interactive quizzes to help reinforce learning.

Beyond the training content itself, what makes the Confidentiality Roadshow so impactful is its co-production with carers. Donna highlighted that every scenario used in the sessions came from real-life examples shared by carers and families. This ensures the training isn’t theoretical so it’s grounded in lived experience. The emotional and practical realities of caring for someone with mental health needs are at the heart of the learning, helping staff understand why clear, compassionate communication is so essential. The training also underscores the importance of listening to carers, not just as bystanders but as active contributors to a person’s care journey.

Several attendees raised the idea of incorporating this training into broader staff induction and continuing professional development programmes. Others asked about adapting it for use in different trust settings, such as acute hospitals or community services. Donna encouraged trusts to reach out if they’d like to adopt or customise the resource. The message was clear: confidentiality shouldn’t be a barrier, it should be a bridge, and with the right training and tools, staff can navigate those conversations with confidence, legality, and humanity.

Mental Health Research Petition

Irene Harris spoke passionately about a new parliamentary petition calling for improved research funding into serious mental illnesses (SMIs) like psychosis. The petition aims to shine a spotlight on how outdated treatments and under-researched conditions continue to place carers and their loved ones in difficult, often heartbreaking positions.

Here is the video about Psychosis medication and its impact by the Stockport carers forum.

She shared how mental health medications for SMIs haven’t evolved as rapidly as physical health treatments, and how this results in long-term side effects and compromised quality of life. Research is desperately needed, not only to improve diagnosis and treatment, but also to create support structures that ease the burden on unpaid carers.

Irene asked attendees to sign and circulate the petition widely, with a goal of hitting 10,000 signatures by November 15th.

https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/725846

She also announced plans to launch new social media channels to raise awareness. This initiative is about more than funding it’s about giving carers and service users a louder voice in national healthcare priorities.

For more details feel free to visit https://www.mhcarersgroupstockport.co.uk

or contact Irene on irene@mhcarersgroupstockport.co.uk

Language, Inclusivity, PCREF & the ‘Global Majority’ Debate

Language and inclusivity were major themes of the meeting, particularly around the term “global majority.” Some attendees expressed concern that the phrase could be divisive or misinterpreted, particularly by politically sensitive audiences or media outlets. A carer shared a personal anecdote illustrating how words can carry unintended consequences.

Others responded by highlighting the intention behind the term to emphasise that those historically described as “minorities” are, in fact, the global majority in population terms. They called for continued use of the phrase in contexts that promote empowerment, equity, and lived experience.

The discussion didn’t produce a consensus, but it modelled what respectful disagreement and co-learning should look like. Matthew reinforced that ToC should be a space for constructive dialogue, not debate for its own sake. Ultimately, we are united in our aim to ensure no carer is left behind regardless of background, heritage, or identity.

Next Steps & Community Actions

The session wrapped up with a summary of action points and responsibilities. Carers Trust will soon circulate the new mailing list sign-up form. Matthew will share updated meeting dates for 2026 once confirmed, and he will continue to distribute posters for the upcoming National Ethnic Carers Group, taking place on the last Friday of each month.

There will be support the rollout of the Confidentiality Roadshow materials and follow up with those interested in joining peer review panels. A reminder was issued for everyone to contribute to current surveys, share their feedback, and suggest future topics for community meetings.

Finally, participants were encouraged to stay connected beyond the meetings. Whether through peer networks, local carers centres, or email updates, the message was clear: carers must stay visible, vocal, and valued. You are the change-makers, and this group is your platform.

Final Thoughts: “Carers Are Not Just a Cog in the Wheel”

Matthew ended the session with a rallying call to action: “We’re not just a cog in the wheel as we are the energy behind it.” His words served as a reminder that carers are not passive recipients of services. They are drivers of quality, advocates for change, and protectors of dignity in the mental health system.

He also reminded everyone that systems often change slowly, but they do change when people keep showing up, keep speaking up, and keep sharing their truths. “This isn’t just about the Triangle of Care,” he said. “It’s about reshaping the whole narrative around mental health and care.”

If you missed the meeting and would like to receive the slides, recordings, or further resources, feel free to contact Matthew McKenzie directly:
📧 mmckenzie@carers.org

Thanks to to all who attended, contributed, and championed carers’ voices. The next meeting should in September where we hope to see you there.

Why Cancer Carers Must also be at the Heart of the NHS 10-Year Plan

By Matthew McKenzie

As the NHS looks to the future with its ambitious 10-Year Plan, one critical group continues to be overlooked cancer carers, although I am not forgetting Mental Health carers. These are the unpaid family members, friends, and loved ones who provide essential care and emotional support to people living with cancer.

While the plan addresses key priorities like digitalization and community-based health reform, it fails to fully recognize the vital role of caregivers in our healthcare ecosystem.

The blog is a transcript of my video, which you can watch below.

Reform Through Inclusion

The NHS 10-Year Plan aims to reshape health services by emphasizing digital tools, preventive care, and stronger local networks.

These initiatives are undoubtedly important. But without recognizing and integrating the contributions of cancer caregivers, the plan risks missing a vital component of patient care.

The Invisible Workforce

Caregivers are often the unsung heroes of cancer care. They manage appointments, administer medications, provide emotional support, and serve as advocates all while coping with their own mental and physical toll.

Challenges Faced by Cancer Carers:

  • Mental Health Impacts: The stress, anxiety, and emotional burden can be overwhelming.
  • Decision Fatigue: Carers are often thrust into complex medical decision-making without adequate support or guidance.
  • Lack of Recognition: Despite their contributions, caregivers are rarely acknowledged as part of the healthcare team.

A Call for Systemic Change

The inclusion of carers in healthcare reform isn’t just an ethical necessity it’s a strategic imperative. By empowering carers, we enhance patient outcomes, reduce strain on NHS services, and promote more holistic care.

Recommendations for Inclusion:

  • Training for Carers: Equip caregivers with tools to better navigate health systems and support patient needs.
  • Support Services: Invest in respite care, mental health support, and caregiver-specific community services.
  • Recognition in Policy: Classify caregivers as essential stakeholders in healthcare planning and delivery.

Co-Production: Designing Services With Carers

One of the most powerful messages from the discussion is the importance of co-production. That means actively involving carers in designing and shaping NHS services not just consulting them after the fact.

Co-Production Actions:

  • Involve Carers in Service Design: Make caregiver feedback a routine part of NHS planning.
  • Policy Advocacy: Push for legal and procedural reforms that recognize the role of carers from day one.

The Road Ahead

Cancer caregivers are not just a support system they are key partners in the healthcare journey. If the NHS truly seeks to build a more inclusive, responsive, and sustainable health system, caregivers must be central to its 10-Year Plan.

Let’s stop treating caregivers as an afterthought. Let’s make them co-creators of the future of care.

Support Sites for Cancer Carers

1. Carers UK

Provides advice, online forums, factsheets, and rights information for unpaid carers across the UK.
https://www.carersuk.org

2. Carers Trust

Supports a network of local carer organisations across the UK. Offers practical help, grants, and local service finders.
https://www.carers.org

3. Macmillan Cancer Support

Offers emotional, practical, and financial support for people affected by cancer—including dedicated resources for carers.
https://www.macmillan.org.uk/information-and-support/supporting-someone-with-cancer

4. NHS – Cancer Care and Support

Official NHS guidance on cancer, treatments, living with cancer, and how carers can support loved ones.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/cancer/

5. Maggie’s Centres

A network of cancer support centres offering free emotional, psychological, and practical support to anyone affected by cancer—including carers.
https://www.maggies.org

6. Marie Curie – Caring for Someone with Cancer

Offers support to those caring for someone at the end of life or with a terminal cancer diagnosis, including bereavement help.
https://www.mariecurie.org.uk/help/support/caring

Alcohol Addiction, Work, and Hidden Carers: Start the Conversation

Understanding Alcohol Awareness Week 2025

Alcohol Awareness Week is an annual event dedicated to raising awareness about the impact of alcohol on individuals, families, workplaces, and society at large. In 2025, the event will run from the 7th to the 13th of July, spearheaded by the charity Alcohol Change UK.

To watch the video version of my blog, see below. The blog is a transcript of the video.

This year’s theme, “Alcohol and Work,” brings a crucial focus to how alcohol consumption affects not just personal health, but also professional performance, workplace relationships, and overall well-being.

The Broader Impact of Alcohol

Alcohol is often viewed through the lens of personal choice and individual health. However, its effects ripple far beyond the person consuming it. The consequences of harmful drinking habits can be seen in diminished work performance, strained relationships, compromised safety, and a decline in mental health. Behind every statistic lies a human story on one that often includes addiction, isolation, and the silent struggles of those who care for someone affected by alcohol dependency.

Alcohol and the Workplace: A Hidden Challenge

The Unseen Effects on Performance and Safety

Alcohol’s impact on the workplace is multifaceted. It can lead to decreased productivity, increased absenteeism, and even safety risks, especially in roles that require high levels of attention and responsibility. The pressure to perform, long working hours, and high-stress environments can sometimes drive individuals to use alcohol as a coping mechanism. This, in turn, can create a cycle where alcohol use further impairs work performance, leading to more stress and potentially more drinking.

The Human Stories Behind the Statistics

It’s easy to overlook the personal narratives behind the numbers. In the UK, approximately one in four people drink in ways that could be harmful to their health. For some, this escalates into dependency, isolation, and crisis. The journey into alcohol dependency is rarely straightforward or visible. It can be masked by a smile, hidden behind long hours at the office, or dismissed with a casual “I’m fine.” The reality is often much more complex and painful.

The Ripple Effect: Unpaid Carers and Their Silent Struggles

The Burden on Unpaid Carers

One of the most overlooked aspects of alcohol-related harm is its impact on unpaid carers. These are the partners, parents, siblings, friends, and even colleagues who quietly support someone struggling with alcohol dependency. Unpaid carers often juggle their own work and family responsibilities while shouldering the emotional and practical burdens of caring for someone else.

The challenges faced by unpaid carers are immense. Many carry this burden alone, with little support or recognition. They may sacrifice sleep, income, and their own mental health in the process. The emotional strain can be overwhelming, and the lack of support can lead to feelings of isolation and helplessness.

The Need for Recognition and Support

It’s time to shine a light on the pressure, pain, and silence that unpaid carers endure. Their contributions are invaluable, yet they often go unnoticed. Recognizing their struggles and providing them with the support they need is essential, not just for their well-being, but for the well-being of those they care for.

Breaking the Silence: The Power of Conversation

Starting the Conversation

One of the most effective ways to address alcohol-related harm is to start a conversation. Breaking the stigma surrounding alcohol dependency begins with open, honest dialogue. If you’re concerned about someone’s drinking habits, reaching out and expressing your concern can be a powerful first step. Sometimes, simply asking, “How are you doing?” can make a world of difference.

Sharing Resources and Support

In addition to conversation, sharing resources is crucial. Organizations like Alcohol Change UK provide valuable information, helplines, and support services for those affected by alcohol dependency. Sharing these resources, whether it’s a helpful video, a website, or a helpline number which can offer much-needed support to someone in need.

Supporting Unpaid Carers

For those who focus on supporting unpaid carers, it’s important to acknowledge their unique challenges. Offering a listening ear, practical assistance, or simply checking in can provide much-needed relief. Carers often feel invisible, so small gestures of support can have a significant impact.

Raising Awareness: Everyone Has a Role

Online, at Work, and in the Community

Raising awareness about the harms of alcohol and the support available is a collective responsibility. Whether it’s through online campaigns, workplace initiatives, or community events, every effort counts. The more we talk about these issues, the less people will suffer in silence.

Building a Culture of Care

Ultimately, the goal is to foster a culture of care, one where no one has to face addiction or the challenges of caring for someone with addiction alone. By working together, we can reduce the harm caused by alcohol, support one another, and create a more compassionate society.

Practical Steps for Getting Involved

1. Educate Yourself and Others

Understanding the facts about alcohol and its effects is the first step. Visit reputable sources like Alcohol Change UK to learn more about the risks associated with alcohol consumption, the signs of dependency, and the support available.

2. Start Conversations

Don’t be afraid to talk about alcohol and its impact. Whether it’s with friends, family, or colleagues, open dialogue can help break down stigma and encourage those struggling to seek help.

3. Share Resources

Distribute information about support services, helplines, and educational materials. The more accessible these resources are, the more likely people are to use them.

4. Support Unpaid Carers

If you know someone who is caring for a person with alcohol dependency, offer your support. This could be as simple as checking in regularly, offering to help with practical tasks, or encouraging them to seek support for themselves.

5. Advocate for Change

Encourage your workplace or community to participate in Alcohol Awareness Week. Organize events, share information, and promote policies that support those affected by alcohol-related harm.

The Importance of Compassion and Understanding

Recognizing the Human Element

Behind every case of alcohol dependency is a person with a unique story. Compassion and understanding are essential in supporting those affected. Avoid judgment and focus on offering support and encouragement.

The Role of Empathy in Recovery

Empathy can be a powerful tool in helping someone change their relationship with alcohol. Listening without judgment, offering encouragement, and being patient can make a significant difference in someone’s journey to recovery.

The Role of Workplaces in Addressing Alcohol-Related Harm

Creating Supportive Environments

Workplaces have a unique opportunity to support employees affected by alcohol-related harm. This can include providing access to counseling services, promoting work-life balance, and fostering a culture where employees feel comfortable seeking help.

Implementing Policies and Training

Employers can implement policies that address alcohol use in the workplace, provide training for managers on how to support employees, and ensure that support services are readily available.

Encouraging Peer Support

Peer support programs can be effective in helping employees feel less isolated and more supported. Encouraging open dialogue and creating safe spaces for discussion can help break down barriers to seeking help.

The Ongoing Challenge: Reducing Stigma

video from Alcohol Change UK

Why Stigma Persists

Stigma remains one of the biggest barriers to seeking help for alcohol dependency. Many people fear judgment or discrimination, which can prevent them from reaching out for support.

How to Combat Stigma

Education and awareness are key to reducing stigma. By sharing stories, promoting understanding, and challenging misconceptions, we can create a more supportive environment for those affected by alcohol-related harm.

Looking Ahead: Building a Supportive Future

The Importance of Continued Awareness

Alcohol Awareness Week is an important opportunity to shine a light on the challenges associated with alcohol use. However, the work doesn’t end when the week is over. Continued awareness, education, and support are essential in creating lasting change.

Working Together for Change

Change is possible when we work together. By supporting one another, raising awareness, and advocating for better support systems, we can reduce the harm caused by alcohol and build a more compassionate society.

Resources for Support

  • Alcohol Change UK: alcoholchange.org.uk – A leading charity providing information, support, and resources for those affected by alcohol-related harm.
  • Helplines and Support Services: Many organizations offer confidential helplines and support services for individuals and carers.
  • Workplace Support: Check with your employer about available support services, employee assistance programs, and mental health resources.

Conclusion: A Call to Action

Alcohol Awareness Week 2025 is a vital opportunity to reflect on the impact of alcohol in our lives, workplaces, and communities. By starting conversations, sharing resources, supporting unpaid carers, and raising awareness, we can make a real difference. Let’s work together to understand the harm that alcohol can cause, support one another, and build a culture of care, because no one should have to face addiction or care for someone with addiction alone.

Let’s make this Alcohol Awareness Week a turning point for greater understanding, compassion, and support.

South West London Mental Health carers group update for June 2025

A Space to Share, a Space to Be Heard

The session opened with updates and heartfelt check-ins. One of our carer members, shared a deeply personal and challenging situation regarding her loved ones declining mental and physical health. Despite strained family dynamics and the emotional burden of caring, a carer is courageously advocating for her loved one and seeking support through nursing services and assessments.

Peer Support: Insights from Experience

Long-time members offered valuable perspectives from their own journeys. A carer shared their struggle supporting individuals, which showed a stark reminder of the emotional and logistical toll caring can take. Another carer encouraged fellow carers to prioritise their own well-being, even in small ways a cup of tea, a short walk, a moment to breathe.

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