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Carers Week 2026 Round-Up

By Matthew McKenzie – Carer, Campaigner, Author and Speaker

5 June 2026 – Supporting Kent County Council’s Carer Awareness Campaign

Although not officially part of Carers Week, my activities with Kent County Council formed an important part of my ongoing commitment to raising awareness of unpaid carers. I supported the county’s long-term carer awareness campaign by taking part in filming designed to help train council staff to better recognise and support carers.

I also discussed future opportunities to speak at Kent County Council carer groups and continued promoting my own support groups across the county. It was encouraging to see local government investing in carer awareness and recognising the importance of ensuring carers are identified, valued and supported within their communities.

9 June 2026 – Developed Video promotion for Carers Week 2026

I did my bit to raise awareness of Carers Week 2026 via a video I developed, which you can see below.

8 June 2026 – Carers Week Stall at St George’s University Hospital

Carers Week officially began with a rewarding day at St George’s University Hospital, where I hosted a Carers UK information stall. The event provided an opportunity to engage directly with unpaid carers, patients, hospital staff and visitors, sharing information about the support available to carers both locally and nationally.

I was particularly pleased to see the hospital’s dedicated carers information board, which demonstrated a clear commitment to recognising and supporting unpaid carers. Throughout the day, I spoke with many people who were caring for family members and helped raise awareness of carers’ rights, available services and the importance of seeking support. It was a positive start to Carers Week and highlighted the vital role healthcare settings can play in identifying and supporting carers.

10 June 2026 – Ealing Carers Week Celebration at Perceval House

On 10 June, I attended the Carers Week Celebration 2026 at Perceval House in Ealing, organised by Ealing Carers Partnership, Ealing Carers Hub and Ealing Council. As someone who supports both of my elderly parents, I understand first-hand the rewards and challenges of caring. During the event, I had the privilege of hosting a Carers UK information stall while also attending as a carer, poet and author.

The day brought together carers, charities, community organisations, health professionals and council representatives in a welcoming and supportive environment.

Carers had access to information, advice and wellbeing activities, including complimentary refreshments, free manicures provided by Uxbridge College students, artwork exhibitions and opportunities to connect with others who understand the caring journey. The event served as a powerful reminder that carers matter, their voices are important and they should never feel alone.

You can find out more about the event below from Ealing Local Community news

Celebrating carers across the borough

10 June 2026 – Carers Week Parliamentary Drop-In Event, Westminster

Later that day, I attended the Carers Week Parliamentary Drop-In Event at Portcullis House, Westminster. The event brought together unpaid carers, carers’ organisations, MPs and Peers to discuss the realities of caring and the support carers need.

Designed as a speed-networking event, it offered an important platform for carers to share their experiences directly with policymakers and raise awareness of both the immense contribution carers make and the challenges they face. It was encouraging to see parliamentarians engaging with carers and supporter organisations, demonstrating a growing recognition of the need for stronger policies and greater support for unpaid carers across the country.

11 June 2026 – East Sussex Carers Voices Event, East Dean Village Hall

As part of Carers Week, I travelled to East Dean in East Sussex to speak at the East Sussex Carers Voices – Celebrating Carers Week Event, organised by Care for the Carers. The event brought together unpaid carers, NHS representatives, local authority leaders, health professionals, carers’ organisations and community groups to discuss how support for carers can be improved.

Hosted by Dr Neil Churchill, Chair of Care for the Carers along with Jennifer Twist CEO of Care For The Carers, the day focused on listening to carers’ experiences and ensuring their voices were heard by decision-makers.

I was honoured to contribute to these discussions and to share insights from my own caring journey. The event demonstrated the value of bringing carers and professionals together to shape services and create positive change for unpaid carers across East Sussex.

12 June 2026 – Speaking at the Cygnet National Carers Event

On 12 June, I had the privilege of speaking at the Cygnet National Carers Event in London as Cygnet’s PCREF Carer Lead, Carer Network Ambassador and carer author. The event brought together carers, healthcare professionals and sector leaders to celebrate carers and discuss the support they need. I shared my experiences as a lifelong carer and highlighted the importance of recognising carers as equal partners in care.

It was inspiring to hear from a diverse range of speakers, including experts by experience, researchers, advocates and service leaders, all united by a shared commitment to improving outcomes for carers. The event reinforced the importance of lived experience in shaping services and ensuring carers’ voices remain central to policy and practice.

13 June 2026 – Carers Community and Support Day at Wells Park Practice

I concluded Carers Week 2026 by hosting a carers information stall alongside Wendy (who is also a devoted carer campaigner at our Lewisham group) at Wells Park Practice during their Carers Community and Support Day.

The event celebrated carers within the local community and provided an opportunity for unpaid carers to access information, advice and support in a relaxed and welcoming environment.

Throughout the afternoon, I spoke with carers about the challenges they face and the services available to help them. The event also highlighted the importance of building a carer-friendly community by recognising carers, understanding the realities of caring and empowering carers to live fulfilling lives. It was a fitting way to end a busy and rewarding week dedicated to championing carers and raising awareness of their invaluable contribution to society.

Reflection

Carers Week 2026 was an incredibly busy and meaningful week, providing opportunities to raise awareness, influence decision-makers, support carers directly and celebrate the extraordinary contribution that unpaid carers make every day.

From hospitals and GP surgeries to Parliament, local authorities and national conferences, the message remained the same: carers are essential, carers deserve recognition and carers must be supported. I am proud to have contributed to so many events throughout the week and remain committed to ensuring that carers’ voices continue to be heard long after Carers Week has ended.

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Carers Week Celebration 2026: A Day of Recognition, Reflection and Resilience

By Matthew McKenzie – Carer, Author, Poet and Host of the Carers UK Information Stall
10 June 2026, Perceval House, Ealing

As a carer myself, supporting both of my brothers, I understand that caring is often a role we never planned for, yet one we embrace out of love, duty and commitment. It can be rewarding, but it can also be isolating, exhausting and overwhelming. That is why events such as the Carers Week Celebration 2026, organised by Ealing Carers Partnership, Ealing Carers Hub and Ealing Council, are so important.

I think it reminds us that carers matter, that our voices are heard and that we are not alone.

Having the privilege of hosting the Carers UK information stall, while also attending as a carer, poet and author, I witnessed first-hand the incredible sense of community that filled Perceval House throughout the day.

The event brought together carers, professionals, charities, community organisations and council representatives for a celebration that was both informative and inspiring. Alongside the opportunity to gather information and advice, carers enjoyed complimentary refreshments, free manicures from students of Uxbridge College, artwork exhibitions and the chance to connect with others who truly understand the caring journey.

Carer Stalls of Support and Opportunities

One of the highlights of the day was the large exhibition area, where carers could meet a wide range of organisations offering support, guidance and practical services.

The information stalls represented the breadth of support available across Ealing and North West London. Throughout the day carers visited displays from organisations including:

  • Carers UK
  • Ealing Carers Partnership
  • Ealing Carers Hub
  • Mind
  • RISE
  • Ealing Advice Service
  • Harlington Hospice / Harlington Care
  • Independent Mental Health Advocacy Services
  • Volunteer Centre Ealing
  • Eating Disorders Support Services
  • Community wellbeing organisations
  • Health and social care providers
  • Local voluntary sector groups
  • Arts and creativity projects for carers
  • Community engagement and peer support groups

Many stalls offered practical information about carers’ rights, benefits, wellbeing support, mental health services, respite opportunities, advocacy and volunteering. Others showcased creative projects and community activities designed to reduce isolation and improve wellbeing.

It was also great to see Carer Poetry displayed including the Carer Poetry group I run with Ealing Carers.

At the Carers UK stall, I had numerous conversations with carers who were seeking information about financial support, carers’ assessments, employment rights and how to balance caring responsibilities with their own health and wellbeing. What struck me most was how many carers were attending such an event for the first time and discovering services they never knew existed.

The exhibition also featured the moving “A Carer Is…” artwork display, where carers expressed their experiences through art. The exhibition provided a powerful reminder that caring is not simply a task—it is an emotional journey filled with love, sacrifice, resilience and hope.

Listening to Carers: The Ealing Carers Forum and Council Presentations

A major focus of the day was the Carers Forum and Question & Answer Session, where carers had the opportunity to hear directly from council leaders and ask questions about services, support and future plans.

The event was opened by senior representatives who acknowledged the enormous contribution carers make every day.

Among the key speakers were:

  • Paul Driscoll, Cabinet Member for Healthy Equal Lives, Ealing Council
  • Kashmir Takhar, Ealing’s Carers Commissioner
  • Senior representatives from Adult Social Care
  • Sophie (Assistant Director, Adult Social Care)
  • Representatives from Ealing Carers Partnership
  • Representatives from Ealing Carers Hub
  • Jane Wheeler, Chief Executive of Harlington Hospice

Paul Driscoll spoke about his commitment to understanding carers’ experiences and ensuring that Ealing’s Carers Strategy becomes a meaningful reality rather than simply another policy document. He emphasised the importance of recognition, support and partnership working with carers.

The presentation by Kashmir Takhar focused on Ealing’s Carers Strategy, a joint strategy developed in partnership with carers, health services, social care and voluntary sector organisations. The strategy highlights four key priorities:

  1. Identifying carers early in their caring journey.
  2. Helping carers maintain family and community life.
  3. Supporting carers’ physical and mental wellbeing.
  4. Helping carers maximise income and achieve their potential.

The presentation revealed that there are approximately 24,000 carers in Ealing, although many remain hidden and do not identify themselves as carers. It also highlighted the growing challenges carers face around mental health, financial pressures, access to services, respite care and social isolation.

Particularly encouraging was hearing about plans to improve access to information, increase wellbeing activities, strengthen respite opportunities and expand support for young carers and working carers.

The Power of Carers’ Voices

One of the most important aspects of the forum was the open discussion session.

Carers shared their personal experiences, raising concerns about respite services, communication between council departments, transport arrangements and the challenges of navigating complex systems while already carrying significant caring responsibilities.

A particularly powerful contribution came from a carer who described how difficult it had been to arrange respite care due to poor coordination between services. The honesty and emotion behind this contribution resonated with many people in the room because it reflected experiences that carers often face but rarely have opportunities to discuss publicly.

Council representatives acknowledged these concerns and committed to improving communication, responsiveness and coordination across services. Assistant Director Sophie openly recognised that carers deserve better experiences and welcomed continued feedback to help shape future improvements.

Representatives from frontline organisations, including Ealing Advice Service, also highlighted recurring issues encountered by carers and stressed the importance of joined-up working between agencies.

Later in the session, Jane Wheeler from Harlington Hospice explained how the organisation’s carers’ short break service supports carers through home-based respite, community outings and specialist support. Her presentation reinforced the message that carers themselves need care, support and opportunities to recharge.

It was more than just a Carers Event

As the day came to a close, what remained was a sense of connection.

For many carers, simply being in a room full of people who understood their experiences was invaluable. There was laughter, conversation, shared stories and moments of reflection. New friendships were formed, information was exchanged and carers left knowing that support is available.

From my own perspective, hosting the Carers UK stall and speaking with so many dedicated carers reinforced why events like this matter. Caring can often feel invisible. The hours spent supporting loved ones frequently go unnoticed by wider society. Yet carers are the backbone of our communities and health systems.

The Carers Week Celebration reminded us that carers deserve recognition not just during one week each year but every day.

To everyone who organised the event, staffed a stall, delivered a presentation, volunteered their time or simply attended and shared their story, I thank you.

Most importantly, to every unpaid carer reading this: thank you for everything you do.

Carers Week 2026: Building Carer Friendly Communities and Supporting Unpaid Carers Across the UK

By Matthew McKenzie – Carer Ambassador

For Carers Week 2026, it takes place from 8–14 June and shines a spotlight on the millions of unpaid carers who provide essential care and support to family members, friends and loved ones throughout the UK.

This year’s theme, Building Carer Friendly Communities, highlights the need for workplaces, healthcare services, schools, local authorities and communities to better recognise and support unpaid carers.

Despite contributing billions of pounds worth of care each year, many unpaid carers continue to face challenges including financial hardship, social isolation, poor mental health and difficulties accessing support. So Carers Week aims to raise awareness of these issues while encouraging practical action to create a society where carers are valued, respected and included.

As a carer activist and founder of my site A Caring Mind, I am sure that creating carer-friendly communities starts with understanding the realities of caring. Whether you are caring for an ageing parent, a disabled child, a partner with a long-term condition or someone experiencing mental ill health, carers play a vital role in keeping families and communities together.

However, there are still many people do not identify themselves as carers and therefore miss out on important support, benefits and services. Carers Week 2026 provides an opportunity for individuals, organisations and policymakers to listen to carers’ experiences, champion carers’ rights and improve access to support for unpaid carers across the UK.

Watch my Carers Week 2026 video below to learn more about the campaign, this year’s theme and how you can get involved in supporting unpaid carers. Please share the video to help raise awareness and encourage more people to recognise the invaluable contribution that carers make every single day.

Together, we can build stronger, more inclusive and more carer-friendly communities

Volunteers’ Week 2026 UK – The Power of Volunteering and Caring

By Matthew McKenzie – Carer UK ambassador and volunteer

As proud volunteer with Carers UK and Carers Trust, and alongside healthcare teams in hospitals supporting unpaid carers and families. I want to take a moment to recognise the incredible contribution volunteers make every single day.

As we celebrate Volunteers’ Week 2026, across our communities, volunteers give their time, skills, compassion, and energy to help others, often without seeking recognition. Their impact is immeasurable.

For me, volunteering is about making a difference, no matter how small. Sometimes it is providing information and advice to a carer who feels overwhelmed. Sometimes it is speaking up for those whose voices are not being heard. Sometimes it is simply listening. These acts of kindness can change lives.

As carers, many of us already give so much of ourselves to support loved ones. Yet volunteering can also be a powerful way to create change, build connections, and strengthen our communities. It reminds us that we are not alone and that together we can make a positive impact.

Mental Health Awareness Week 2026 – Take Action

Mental Health Awareness Week 2026 over in the UK runs from Monday 11 to Sunday 17 May, and the theme is Take Action. I know firsthand how challenging it can be to look after someone while managing your own wellbeing.

Mental Health Foundation is the main charity behind Mental Health Awareness Week in the UK, but there are many other important organisations playing key roles in mental health support, advocacy, treatment and public awareness.

So for the week of this blog, it is a reminder that even small steps can make a big difference, whether it’s checking in on a friend, practicing self-care, or seeking support from local and national organisations.

As a reminder Carers often put themselves last, but protecting your own mental health is essential and taking action starts with acknowledging that you deserve support too.

During this Mental Health Awareness Week, there are many organisations and local NHS carer support services provide invaluable guidance, counselling, and resources for unpaid carers.

The theme is “Every action counts”. From reaching out to your community, to joining peer support groups, to simply taking a moment for yourself.

Watch my video above for practical tips, encouragement, and ways to take action for your mental health and the wellbeing of those you care for.

Let’s work together to make mental health a priority for everyone, today and every day.

Additional Resources for Carers and Mental Health Support

Step Outside, Connect, and Recharge: Join Carers Active Together in Hyde Park

Taking time for yourself as a carer isn’t always easy. The daily responsibilities, emotional demands, and constant care for others can often mean your own wellbeing takes a back seat. That’s why initiatives like Carers Active Together matter more than ever.

This Wednesday 15 April, a national day of action is bringing carers across the UK together to focus on movement, wellbeing, and community and you’re invited to be part of it.

A simple step that makes a difference

As part of the day, Carers UK is hosting a free, friendly wellbeing walk in Hyde Park, which is a chance to pause, breathe, and connect with others who understand the caring journey.

Whether you’re caring for a loved one full-time or supporting someone alongside work and life commitments, this walk is designed to be inclusive, relaxed, and welcoming. There’s no pressure, just an opportunity to enjoy fresh air, gentle movement, and good company.

Event details

  • Date: Wednesday 15 April
  • Time: 11:00am
  • Location: Meet at Serpentine Bar and Kitchen, Hyde Park
  • Cost: Free

As highlighted on the event flyer (page 1), the walk is all about giving carers a chance to “get some fresh air, connect with your community, and enjoy a supportive stroll with local carers.”

Why join the walk?

Sometimes the smallest actions like a walk in the park can have the biggest impact. Taking part in this event can help you:

  • Boost your physical and mental wellbeing
  • Meet other carers and share experiences
  • Feel part of a supportive community
  • Take a well-deserved break in a beautiful setting

You’re not alone

Carers play an essential role in our communities, often quietly and without recognition. Carers Active Together is a reminder that your wellbeing matters too and that support is out there.

If you know someone who is a carer, consider sharing this with them. A simple invitation could make a meaningful difference.

Register your place

Spaces are free, but registration is encouraged. You can sign up here:
👉 https://bit.ly/4uEXwJO

What the new London Assembly carers report really means for unpaid carers

This week as of this blog post, the London Assembly published a major new report on unpaid carers: “London’s unpaid carers: Caring for the carers.”

I had the opportunity to contribute to this work as a carer and advocate, alongside others who shared their lived experience. Seeing those voices reflected in the final report is both encouraging and a reminder of how much still needs to change for unpaid carers in London.

👉 Read the full report:
https://www.london.gov.uk/who-we-are/what-london-assembly-does/london-assembly-work/london-assembly-publications/economy-culture-and-skills-report-londons-unpaid-carers

👉 Carers UK press release:
https://www.carersuk.org/news-and-campaigns/press-releases/new-report-from-the-london-assembly-economy-culture-and-skills-committee-calls-for-more-financial-support-for-londons-unpaid-carers/

The reality: carers are still “hidden”

One of the strongest messages in the report is that many unpaid carers are still not identified.

Too often, people caring for a partner, parent, or child don’t even realise they are classed as a “carer” which means they miss out on financial support, services, and basic recognition.

From my own experience, and what was shared at the Assembly, this is especially true for:

  • Mental health carers
  • Carers from ethnic minority backgrounds
  • Indentification of unpaid carers

If you’re not identified, I feel you don’t exist in the system.

Financial pressure is a major issue

The report possibly confirms what many carers already know:

  • Nearly 1 in 3 carers in London are living in poverty
  • Carer’s Allowance is not enough to live on
  • Many carers have to reduce work or leave employment entirely

There are positive recommendations here like reviewing Carer’s Allowance and reducing travel costs, but these need to turn into real change, not just policy discussions.

Support isn’t working as it should

Another issue raised in the report and something I spoke about is that support often feels like a “tick-box exercise”.

Carers go through assessments, but:

  • Support is limited
  • Funding is inconsistent
  • Real help (like respite care) is hard to access, especially for mental health carers, I mean what does respite actually mean for mental health unpaid carers?

Identification alone isn’t enough. I think It has to lead to meaningful, practical support.

So what needs to happen next?

The report makes some important recommendations:

  • Better identification of carers across London
  • More funding for local carer services
  • Changes to Carer’s Allowance
  • Improved workplace support
  • and a lot more, but you would have to go through the report.

But the key question now is: will this actually be implemented?

Carers don’t need more recognition alone we need action.

Final thoughts

Unpaid carers are holding up the health and social care system every single day.

This report is a very important step forward. But it should be the beginning of change not the end of the conversation.

If you are a carer, or know someone who is, I’d encourage you to read the report and share your experiences. The more visible carers are, the harder it is for the system to ignore us.

Why Unpaid Carers Must Be in the Lecture Theatre – Not Just the Waiting Room

By Matthew McKenzie, A Caring Mind (Carers UK Ambassador)

As an unpaid mental health carer, I have spent years navigating hospital corridors, GP practices, care plans, juggling crises, and long silences where carers are too often left out. I am sure unpaid carers are expected to hold families together, while notice early warning signs, and keep loved ones safe. Still I always mention most of us receive no formal training, and our knowledge is rarely recognised as expertise.

That is why recently teaching a module for the Masters course to mental health nursing students at King’s College London felt so important. Not after they qualify. Not once they are overwhelmed in practice. But before they step out into the field. The session took place 15th of January.

Why carer-led teaching matters

Unpaid carers sit at the sharp edge of the mental health system. We see what works, what harms, and what gets missed when professionals don’t fully understand the family context. When students hear directly from carers, learning moves beyond textbooks into real life into the emotional, practical, and ethical realities of care.

Training mental health professionals without carer voices is like teaching navigation without a map.

What I taught: lived experience as learning

The session I delivered was built entirely from a carer’s perspective and centred on one core message: you cannot deliver effective mental health care without working with carers.

The module covered:

  • My lived experience as an unpaid mental health carer
    How I became a carer, the emotional impact, the daily responsibilities, and the toll caring can take on mental and physical health.
  • The hidden impact on carers
    Burnout, stigma, isolation, guilt, and the reality that many carers are supporting professionals while receiving little support themselves.
  • Carers as partners, not problems
    Exploring what happens when carers are ignored – and how outcomes improve when they are listened to, informed, and included.
  • The Triangle of Care
    A strong emphasis on the Triangle of Care framework: the partnership between service user, carer, and professional. I challenged students to see carers as a vital link in the chain, not an optional extra.
  • Carers UK and carer identification
    Highlighting the role of Carers UK in advocacy, rights, resources, and why professionals must help carers identify themselves early so they can access support.
  • Practical skills for future nurses
    Listening without defensiveness, sharing information appropriately, involving carers in care planning, and understanding when carers need support themselves.
  • Interactive discussion and reflection
    Students worked through real-life scenarios, asking: What would I do differently now that I understand the carer experience?

The shift we need in education

Most unpaid carers are not trained for their role. We learn through crisis, exhaustion, and trial and error. Mental health professionals, however, are trained, which means universities have a responsibility to ensure that training includes those of us living this reality every day.

Carer-led teaching builds empathy, improves communication, and ultimately leads to safer, more effective care. When students learn early that carers matter, they carry that mindset into practice.

A final thought

Unpaid carers are already part of the mental health workforce, it’s just the title unpaid, unsupported, and often unheard. So I feel bringing carers into universities is not a “nice extra”. It is absolutely essential.

If we want a mental health system that truly works, we must start by listening to those who never clock off.

Carols, Community and the Quiet Strength of Carers – Reflections from the Carers UK Christmas Service 2025

By Matthew McKenzie

On 4th December 2025, I had the privilege of attending the Service of Christmas Carols and Readings for Carers UK (for their 60th anniversary) at The King’s Chapel of the Savoy.

As many will know, Carers UK is a national charity that offers advice, information, and advocacy for unpaid carers, people who look after a family member or friend due to illness, disability, mental health challenges or frailty.

Their work is vital and ranges from campaigning for carers’ rights, to shaping policy, to providing emotional and practical support.

As someone who has spent years amplifying carers’ voices, and as someone who has been a carer myself, I always find moments like this grounding. They remind me that carers are so often hidden and deserve spaces of recognition, reflection, and community.

I couldnt capture the whole event, so a lot of it is from memory,

The King’s Chapel of the Savoy, with its royal heritage and intimate atmosphere, felt like the perfect place for such a service. The carved wood, the vivid ceiling, the echo of voices old and new it all contributed to an environment where carers could feel honoured rather than overlooked.

A Service That Told carer Stories

The order of service blended scripture, poetry, classic carols, and carers’ own words. Each part spoke to a different dimension of caring, love, sacrifice, resilience, loss, hope.

Here is a clear, concise list of the Carers UK Christmas Carol Service Order, based on the programme you shared.

Some of the order of Service – Carers UK Christmas Carols and Readings

  1. Carol – Once in Royal David’s City
  2. Welcome & The Bidding Prayer by The Revd Canon Thomas Woodhouse MA
  3. Welcome on Behalf of Carers UK by Helen Walker, Chief Executive
  4. Gospel According to Luke, Chapter 2, Verses 8–20 Reader: Rt Hon Sir Ed Davey MP
  5. Reading – Gospel According to Luke, Chapter 2, Verses 1–7, Reader: The Rt Rev Rob Wickham
  6. Reading – Extract from A Christmas Carol, Reader: Jaycee La Bouche, a carer
  7. The Blessing by The Revd Canon Thomas Woodhouse MA

Below are some reflections on the elements that struck me the most, based on the transcript provided.

I started noting down things when hearing the classic Clement Clarke Moore poem brought a sense of nostalgia and gentleness. For many carers, Christmas isn’t always restful, it can be emotionally heavy or practically demanding. Yet this reading reminded me of the grounding power of tradition.

There was also a Carer’s Poem – “I Carried Him” (Martin Seare), which was read by Tiggy Walker. The poem captured something familiar to many carers, which is the sense of being the energy source behind someone else’s survival. The feeling of being nurse, advocate, motivator, protector, and emotional anchor, all at once.

Jaycee’s reading from A Christmas Carol brought a heartfelt authenticity to the service, grounding Dickens’ message of compassion in real lived experience. Hearing a carer deliver those words reminded me how powerfully stories of renewal that echo the emotional journeys many carers navigate every day.

We also heard an extract from A Christmas Carol, where hearing Dickens’ words about Scrooge’s transformation felt fitting. Carers often live in a world full of systems that need to “wake up” to their realities, these systems overdue for compassion and change.

There was another Carer’s Poem – “Hands That Once Held Me” (Aaliyah O’Neill), which was read by Pippa Haywood. This poem honoured the emotional labour that accompanies caring, the grief, the patience, the love that persists through fading timelines and shifting identities.

Walking around after the service, we were provided with wine and mince pies (I could only handle one glass of mine), but ate a lot of mince pies. I also noticed on a nearby table, beautifully wrapped with red ribbon, were copies of books written by individuals deeply connected to the world of caring.

Tiggy Walker’s Both Sides Now offered a tender, candid exploration of love, loss, and the emotional realities of caring, while Why I Care highlighted personal reflections on the value and challenges of supporting others by Sir Ed Davy. Seeing these books at the event felt fitting, they extended the service’s message by giving carers stories they could see themselves in, learn from, and feel strengthened by.

Carols – Collective Voice, Collective Strength

Carols like “Once in Royal David’s City,” “O Little Town of Bethlehem,” “In the Bleak Midwinter,” “O Come All Ye Faithful,” and “Hark the Herald Angels Sing” took on added meaning.

Singing these in chapel reminded me that carers often feel alone, but they are part of a much larger story. Carols have always been about shared experience, hope, and unity. That unity was felt strongly throughout the chapel.

A Blessing for Carers

Towards the end, The Revd Canon Thomas Woodhouse offered prayers acknowledging:

  • those who care
  • those who are cared for
  • those who grieve
  • those who find joy in service
  • those who struggle silently

What the Service Meant to Me as a Carer

I left the event feeling the followng:

Being Seen

Carers rarely hear their stories reflected back to them with such respect. This service did that.

Connected

Being surrounded by fellow carers, supporters, faith leaders, and advocates reminded me that we are not navigating these challenges alone.

Renewed

Christmas can be difficult for many carers, i am running a few carer groups to reduce isolation, but this service offered a moment to pause, reflect, and recharge spiritually and emotionally.

Motivated

Each poem and reading reinforced why I continue to campaign and raise awareness: because carers’ lives, struggles, and contributions must be brought into public consciousness.

Final Thoughts

The Carers UK Christmas Service wasn’t just a festive gathering, it was a space that lifted the voices and experiences of carers into the light.

Carers UK continues to be a champion for those who give so much of themselves. And events like this remind us that recognition, community, and hope are powerful gifts.

I left the chapel gratefull for the stories shared, for the solidarity felt, and for the reminder that carers are, and always have been, at the heart of what makes our communities truly compassionate.

BONUS : A small tour of the chapel.

History in the Woodwork: Discovering the Stories Behind the Savoy Chapel’s Symbols

One unexpected part of attending the Carers UK Christmas Service at The King’s Chapel of the Savoy was the opportunity to explore some of the chapel’s remarkable historical artefacts. As a carer and someone who works in carer advocacy, I often reflect on continuity on how the past shapes the present. Walking around the chapel, I realised the walls were not just decorative; they were storytellers.

These objects and emblems remind us that the Savoy Chapel is a living part of royal, national, and personal history. And in many ways, the quiet endurance reflected in these items echoes the resilience of carers across the country.

1. The Heraldic Plaques on the Chapel Walls

Along the wooden panelled walls were beautifully detailed heraldic plaques, each representing past members or senior figures associated with the Royal Victorian Order or individuals linked to the chapel’s long history of royal service.

The Royal Victorian Order was established in 1896 by Queen Victoria as a way of personally recognising service to the monarch. That personal element, service based on loyalty, commitment, and relationship. That i felt especially meaningful as someone attending the Carers UK event.

Each plaque typically includes:

  • A coat of arms, with symbols representing the individual’s heritage, achievements, or values.
  • A Latin motto, often referencing duty, honour, or faith.
  • A record of rank or title, showing how the person was tied to the Crown or Order.

Standing before these plaques, I was reminded that service, whether to the Crown or to a loved one is always part of a bigger human story.

2. The Book of Remembrance

Displayed under protective glass, the Book of Remembrance is one of the most moving artefacts in the Savoy Chapel. It is handwritten and illuminated in a traditional style, much like medieval manuscripts.

The book honours individuals connected to the chapel, recording their names, contributions, and sometimes short dedications. Every entry is crafted with care, respecting the memory of those who served their communities or the Royal Household.

3. The Stalls with Coats of Arms of Officers and Servants of the Order

In the choir stalls, more coats of arms decorate the woodwork. These represent officers, registrars, chaplains, and others who have served the Royal Victorian Order over the decades.

Each shield is different, but together they form a visual tapestry of dedication. They signal continuity across generations much like how caring roles pass through families, communities, and time.

You can almost imagine the individuals who once occupied these seats, each carrying out their duties with diligence. Their heraldry remains here as a testament to lives spent in service.

4. The Mantle and Insignia of a Knight Grand Cross of the Royal Victorian Order

One of the most striking displays was the ceremonial mantle worn by a Knight Grand Cross of the Royal Victorian Order (GCVO). The deep blue and crimson robe, gold tassels, and the star emblem reflect the highest grade of this honour.

The mantle’s presence is not merely decorative:

  • The GCVO is awarded personally by the monarch, not via government recommendation.
  • It recognises exceptional service to the Crown.
  • The Star, Badge, and Collar each represent centuries-old tradition.

5. The Royal Victorian Order and Medal Display

This framed display explains the different grades of the Royal Victorian Order (RVO) and shows examples of the insignia, including:

  • Knight/Dame Grand Cross (GCVO)
  • Knight/Dame Commander (KCVO/DCVO)
  • Commander (CVO)
  • Lieutenant (LVO)
  • Member (MVO)
  • Royal Victorian Medal (RVM) in Gold, Silver, and Bronze

The RVM is unique because it honours personal service by staff who support the Royal Household directly, often throughout a lifetime. The photos in the display include historical figures wearing the ribbons and badges, underscoring the order’s strong ties to loyalty and lifelong commitment.

Why These Artefacts Mattered at a Carers Event

These historical items weren’t just museum pieces; they told a story of service, loyalty, remembrance, and quiet strength. I think in that sense, they perfectly framed the Carers UK Christmas Service.

Carers Rights Day 2025 – “Know Your Rights, Use Your Rights”

By Matthew McKenzie – Volunteer of Carers UK

On this year’s Carers Rights Day 2025 (Thursday 20 November), the theme is “Know your rights, use your rights.”

If you care for someone, whether it’s a partner, parent, child or friend; you may be missing out on vital support simply because you didn’t realise you have rights as a carer.

In my new video I walk you through what those rights actually are, and how you can use them in practice.

In this video you’ll discover:

  • Why recognising yourself as a carer matters
  • Key rights every carer should know (from assessments to flexible working)
  • How to make use of those rights in your daily life
  • Where to go for help, guidance and support

Click the link, take two minutes, and empower yourself today.