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National Ethnic mental health Carer Forum : March Update 2026

Chaired by Matthew McKenzie – Carer Activist

The March session of the National Ethnic Mental Health Carer Forum brought together carers, researchers, NHS professionals and community organisations for a conversation that felt both familiar and urgent.

Chaired by Matthew McKenzie, the forum stayed rooted in what it does best: creating a national grassroots space where lived experience meets systems, and where difficult truths are not avoided.

The agenda reflected that balance clearly:

  • 10:35 – Professor Saffron Karlsen (University of Bristol)
  • 11:20 – King’s College London (Phoebe Averill & team)
  • 11:50 – Parliamentary and Health Service Ombudsman
  • 12:00 – Thomas Ince – Universal Care Plan

Racism and Mental Health: Naming What We Already Know

Professor Saffron Karlsen opened the forum with a presentation that didn’t just describe inequality it explained how it is produced, sustained, and experienced in everyday life.

Drawing on over 30 years of research, Professor Saffron Karlsen is a sociologist at the University of Bristol whose research examines how racism and social inequality affect health, particularly within ethnic minority communities.

she spoke about racism not as a single act or incident, but as something woven into the fabric of society. It operates quietly and persistently, through institutions, through policies, through media narratives, and through the ways people interact with one another. The effect is cumulative. It builds over time, shaping not just opportunities, but health itself.

What made the presentation particularly powerful was how it connected these structural ideas to real human consequences. Racism was described as something that works on multiple levels at once: from overt abuse or violence, to the less visible but equally damaging experience of simply knowing that you live in a society where you may be treated unfairly. That awareness alone carrying the expectation of discrimination creates a constant undercurrent of stress and anxiety.

She explained how this stress doesn’t just sit in the mind. It translates into physical outcomes. People exposed to racism are more likely to experience anxiety, depression, and long-term distress, but also physical health inequalities such as cardiovascular disease. These outcomes are often misunderstood or misrepresented. Too frequently, they are explained away as lifestyle issues diet, exercise, personal choice without recognising the deeper social conditions that shape those behaviours in the first place.

A particularly striking part of the presentation focused on how people respond to these pressures. When individuals feel powerless to change their circumstances, they may turn to coping mechanisms smoking, drinking, or withdrawing from services. These responses are then judged in isolation, rather than understood as part of a wider context. In this way, the system not only fails to address the root causes but can end up reinforcing blame on the individual.

Perhaps the most important insight came when the discussion turned to healthcare itself. Even when services are available, they are not always experienced as safe or trustworthy. Saffron shared research showing that people may avoid seeking help not necessarily because of direct negative experiences, but because of what they have seen and heard about racism more broadly. The perception of risk becomes enough to keep people away.

One example described a woman who, during the COVID period, chose to avoid hospital care entirely. Her decision was shaped by what she had seen in public discourse and online reactions to racial justice movements. It left her feeling that she could not trust how she would be treated. This kind of anticipatory fear of not being treated with dignity or fairness adds another layer of stress to an already difficult situation.

The presentation also challenged the way healthcare systems understand illness. Many services still operate within a narrow biomedical framework, focusing on symptoms and diagnoses while overlooking the social realities that contribute to them. For people from marginalised communities, this can lead to experiences where their perspectives are dismissed or misunderstood. They may try to explain how racism, housing, poverty, or life circumstances have shaped their health, only to find those explanations sidelined.

This is where the concept of “epistemic injustice” becomes important, although Saffron didn’t dwell on jargon, the meaning was clear. It is about whose knowledge counts. When patients and carers are not listened to, or when their experiences are not taken seriously, care becomes something done to them, rather than with them. For many, this is not just frustrating it is re-traumatising.

Professor Saffron also showed a video – Nilaari delivering hope A community mental health provider for people of colour, which you can watch below.


Q&A Section : From Evidence to Frustration

1. “You’ve explained the problems, but what are the solutions?”

Answer:
Saffron acknowledged that addressing racism at its root is complex and long-term, but highlighted practical steps:

  • Services must be co-produced with people who have lived experience
  • Communities need to be actively involved in decision-making spaces
  • Grassroots and voluntary organisations should be:
    • properly funded
    • meaningfully included in policy and service design

She emphasised that change should be done with communities, not to them, and that learning from effective third-sector approaches is key.


2. “Do you look at drug and alcohol use as part of racism-related issues?”

Answer:
Yes, but not in the way systems often frame it.

Saffron explained that:

  • Substance use is often a response to difficult life experiences, including racism and poverty
  • Systems tend to treat it as an individual problem, rather than understanding the wider causes
  • These behaviours can reflect a lack of:
    • support
    • options
    • alternative coping mechanisms

She stressed the importance of shifting away from blame and towards understanding context.


3. “Is trauma-informed care part of the solution?”

Answer:
Trauma-informed care is important, but not sufficient on its own.

Saffron highlighted that:

  • Current models of trauma-informed care can be too narrow
  • They often fail to fully account for:
    • systemic racism
    • structural inequalities
  • Services also need to recognise that they themselves can contribute to trauma

She suggested that trauma-informed approaches must be:

  • culturally sensitive
  • shaped by different communities’ understandings of trauma

4. “What do you mean by ‘racism is a virus’?”

Answer:
Saffron used this idea as a metaphor.

She explained that:

  • Racism spreads and reproduces across society, much like a virus
  • It moves through:
    • institutions
    • policies
    • social interactions
  • It grows and reinforces itself over time

At the same time, she used this idea to challenge overly individualised thinking—highlighting that racism is structural, not just personal.


King’s College London: When Crisis Care Comes Too Late presented by Phoebe Averill.

After the earlier discussion on racism and inequality, the presentation from King’s College London brought the conversation into something more immediate what actually happens when someone reaches crisis point and needs urgent mental health support.

Phoebe Averill and her team focused on pathways under the Mental Health Act, but what emerged wasn’t a technical discussion. It was a picture of a system that often struggles at the exact moment it is supposed to respond.

They began by looking at the period just before crisis. In many cases, there are early warning signs. Carers and families notice changes subtle at first, then more obvious. They often try to raise concerns early, hoping intervention might prevent things from escalating. But too often, those early signals are not acted on.

By the time the system responds, the situation has already deteriorated.

The research highlighted that delays are not caused by a single issue, but by a combination of pressures within the system. These include:

  • shortages in hospital beds
  • fragmented coordination between services
  • breakdowns in communication across teams

While these explanations are familiar, the impact of them feels anything but routine. During the waiting period, people do not remain stable. They become more unwell, more distressed, and more at risk. What could have been addressed earlier becomes a crisis that is harder to manage.

One of the most striking parts of the presentation was the focus on what happens in that gap between “something is wrong” and “help arrives.” That space is where much of the pressure shifts onto carers.

Carers described being left to manage situations that are escalating in real time. They are expected to keep someone safe, to monitor behaviour, and to absorb the emotional weight of what is happening all while waiting for services to respond. In some cases, this can last days or even weeks.

This isn’t a formal role, and it’s not one carers are prepared for. It’s something they step into because there is no alternative.

The consequences of these delays don’t end when care finally arrives. By that point, the impact can already be significant. The research pointed to outcomes such as:

  • worsening mental health leading to longer hospital stays
  • increased risk of avoidable harm during the waiting period
  • disruption to housing, employment, and relationships

In other words, the delay itself becomes part of the problem, shaping what happens next.

Another important thread running through the presentation was the role of carers’ knowledge. Carers are often the first to recognise when something is changing. They understand patterns, triggers, and early warning signs in a way that professionals may not see immediately. Yet this insight is not always taken seriously or acted upon.

The result is a system that tends to respond late rather than early intervening at crisis point, rather than preventing it.

The KCL team were clear that their research is trying to address this gap. They spoke about building a lived experience advisory group and involving carers and service users directly in shaping the work. There was a clear intention to move beyond observation and towards something more collaborative, where lived experience informs how the research develops.

At the same time, there was a quiet recognition in the room that much of this is not new. Similar issues have been raised repeatedly over the years. The difference here was not the discovery of the problem, but the clarity of where it sits in that critical moment where response is needed, and the system is slow to act.

Placed alongside the earlier discussion on racism, this presentation added another layer of understanding. It showed how broader inequalities are not abstract—they play out in very real ways at the point of crisis. Where trust is already fragile, delays make it harder to engage. Where carers are already stretched, the system’s response can increase that pressure rather than relieve it.

By the end of the session, one idea stood out clearly: this is not just about whether care is available. It is about whether it comes at the right time, whether the right people are listened to, and whether the system is able to act before situations reach breaking point.


Parliamentary and Health Service Ombudsman: When Accountability Feels Out of Reach

The next presentation of the forum came from the Parliamentary and Health Service Ombudsman team, who joined to explain how carers and families can raise concerns when NHS care goes wrong.

On the surface, this was a session about process how complaints move through the system and when the Ombudsman becomes involved. But as the discussion unfolded, it became clear that this was really about something deeper: whether accountability is genuinely accessible to carers in practice.

The team described their role as an independent body that steps in once local complaints processes have been completed. In theory, the pathway is clear. Before approaching the Ombudsman, people are expected to go through several stages:

  • raise concerns with the service directly
  • receive a formal response, often referred to as the “final response letter”
  • only then escalate the complaint for independent review

What sounds straightforward on paper quickly became more complex when viewed through lived experience.

Carers shared how difficult it can be to even reach that final stage. The process can take months, sometimes longer, and often requires sustained effort just to keep it moving. Following up, chasing responses, and navigating unclear communication becomes part of the experience.

One comment in the chat captured this reality clearly:

“It can be hard to get to the point of getting a final outcome letter… the amount of advocacy and chasing that needs to happen…”

Another highlighted how far removed the process can feel from everyday awareness:

“It takes far more than 12 months to even come into awareness…”

In response, the Ombudsman team acknowledged that delays particularly at the final response stage are common. They explained that in some cases, where delays are extreme, they may contact organisations directly, and they encouraged people to use their helpline for guidance when processes stall.

But even with that support, there was a sense in the room that the system places a significant burden on those trying to access it. By the time someone considers making a complaint, they are often already dealing with the aftermath of a difficult experience. Adding a lengthy and sometimes frustrating process on top of that can feel overwhelming.

The conversation also turned to accessibility. Questions were raised about language, digital access, and the assumptions built into how information is shared. Not everyone engages with systems in the same way, and not everyone finds it easy to navigate written guidance or formal processes.

Participants pointed out that some communities may never reach the complaints stage at all—not because issues don’t exist, but because the pathway itself is difficult to access.

This was reflected in a simple but powerful comment:

“We are assuming that everyone reads…”

There were also wider reflections about how systems could better meet people where they are, including:

  • making information available in more accessible formats and languages
  • reaching people through community networks, not just formal channels

Even within this practical discussion, the themes from earlier in the forum remained present. Trust, accessibility, and lived experience all shaped how people understood the complaints process.

Placed alongside the earlier presentations, this session added an important dimension. If the system fails as described in the discussions on racism and crisis care—then the ability to challenge that failure becomes critical. But if the route to accountability is difficult to navigate, many experiences may never be formally recognised.

What emerged was not a rejection of the Ombudsman’s role, but a recognition of the gap between what exists and what is accessible.

Because accountability is not just about having a process in place.
It is about whether people can realistically use it especially at a time when they may already be stretched, exhausted, and navigating multiple pressures.


Universal Care Plan and Carer Contingency Planning: A System Trying to Catch Up

The final contribution to the forum came from Thomas Ince, introducing the Universal Care Plan often referred to as UCP. After the earlier discussions on racism, crisis care, and accountability, this felt like a shift towards something more practical: what the system is trying to build in response to the gaps carers have been describing.

At its core, the Universal Care Plan is a digital tool designed to allow people to record and share information about their care. It sits within the NHS App and is intended to bring together health, social care, and voluntary services around a shared understanding of a person’s needs and preferences.

Thomas described how the system has evolved over time. It began with a focus on end-of-life care, making sure that a person’s wishes could be accessed quickly by professionals such as ambulance crews. It then expanded into areas like sickle cell crisis planning and is now being extended further to cover a wider range of conditions and situations.

The direction of travel is clear: moving from a professionally controlled system towards something more person-owned, where individuals can enter their own information and shape how their care is understood.


A Tool That Centres “What Matters to You”

One of the key features Thomas highlighted was a section within the plan that allows people to describe themselves in their own words. Rather than being defined only by diagnosis or clinical notes, individuals can record what matters to them information that can then be seen by anyone involved in their care.

In principle, this is a shift towards more personalised and human-centred care. It offers a way to capture context, preferences, and lived experience in a system that often reduces people to categories.

But for this forum, the most significant element was something more specific.


The Carer Contingency Plan

Thomas introduced a feature that immediately resonated with the group: the carer contingency plan.

This allows carers to record what should happen if they are suddenly unable to provide care. For example:

  • if they become unwell or need urgent medical attention
  • if there is a sudden change in their circumstances

In those situations, the system can alert professionals to the fact that someone is dependent on that carer and provide information about what support is needed.

For many carers, this addressed a very real and often unspoken concern:
what happens to the person they care for if something happens to them?

The idea that this information could be visible across services—rather than held informally or not at all felt like a meaningful step.


From Concept to Reality: The Challenge of Engagement

While the tool itself was broadly welcomed, the discussion quickly moved beyond what it does to how it will actually be used.

Thomas was open about the current stage of development. Although the system is available, it remains largely driven by professionals, with limited public awareness. One of the key aims now is to shift towards wider engagement encouraging people to take ownership of their care plans and input their own information.

This raised an important question in the room: how do you introduce a digital solution into communities where trust in services is already fragile?

Participants pointed out that many people particularly from ethnic minority backgrounds—do not engage easily with primary care systems. If the entry point to the Universal Care Plan is through those same systems, there is a risk that the people who could benefit most may not use it at all.

Suggestions began to emerge organically from the group, reflecting a more community-led approach:

  • working through carer centres, peer groups, and local networks
  • engaging cultural organisations and community leaders
  • using spaces where trust already exists, rather than relying solely on formal channels

There was a clear sense that communication could not be an afterthought. It needed to be built into the design of how the tool is introduced.


Language and Accessibility: A Tension Exposed

One of the most striking moments in this section came when language accessibility was discussed.

At present, the NHS App and therefore the Universal Care Plan is only available in English (and Welsh). Thomas acknowledged that this is a limitation and that while there are conversations about future solutions, no immediate changes are in place.

This prompted a strong reaction from participants. There was frustration that a tool described as “universal” could exclude large sections of the population from the outset. For some, this was not just a technical issue but a reflection of a wider pattern—systems being designed without fully considering the diversity of the communities they serve.

It brought the discussion back to a familiar theme from earlier in the forum:
inclusion cannot be added later, it has to be built in from the beginning.


A Step Forward With Conditions

Despite these concerns, there was recognition that the Universal Care Plan has real potential.

The idea of having:

  • shared, accessible information across services
  • visibility of carers and their responsibilities
  • a contingency plan that reduces risk in emergencies

addresses issues that carers have been raising for years.

But the conversation made it clear that the success of the tool will depend on more than its functionality. It will depend on whether people:

  • know about it
  • trust it
  • can access it
  • and feel that it reflects their needs and realities

Without that, there is a risk that it becomes another well-intentioned solution that doesn’t reach the people it was designed for.


Placing It in the Wider Conversation

Coming at the end of the forum, this presentation connected in an important way to everything that had been discussed earlier.

Where Saffron’s presentation explored the structural roots of inequality, and the KCL research showed how system delays affect people in crisis, the Universal Care Plan represented an attempt however early to respond to those issues in practice.

But it also revealed the ongoing challenge.

Because even when new tools are introduced, they are still shaped by the same system dynamics:
questions of trust, access, communication, and inclusion do not disappear they simply take new forms.

Are You a Carer? Help Improve Care Under the Mental Health Act

Post shared by Matthew McKenzie

When someone you care about experiences a mental health crisis, the system needs to work quickly, safely and compassionately. But for many families and carers, the reality can involve delays, uncertainty, and distress especially when assessments or admissions happen under the Mental Health Act.

Now, there is a meaningful opportunity for carers to use their lived experience to shape research that aims to improve this care.

The importance of the Research

In times of crisis, timely support can prevent someone from becoming more unwell or needing more restrictive interventions later. Researchers at King’s College London want to better understand:

  • Experiences of delays in Mental Health Act assessments
  • What happens during admissions to hospital
  • How care pathways could be made safer and more responsive

Crucially, they want carers and service users at the heart of this work.

A Paid Opportunity to Share Your Expertise

Family members and carers of young people or adults who have received care under the Mental Health Act are warmly invited to join a Lived Experience Advisory Board.

As a carer, your insight is invaluable. You will help:

  • Shape the direction of the research
  • Share your views on how care could be improved
  • Ensure the work reflects real-life experiences

Meetings will take place both online and in person (London), making it accessible to a wide range of participants.

Participants will receive £27.50 per hour (plus expenses) in recognition of their time and expertise.

Who Can Get Involved?

The research team would like to hear from:

  • Adults aged 18+ with experience of detention under the Mental Health Act
  • Family members and carers of young people or adults with experience of care under the Mental Health Act

If you have supported someone through assessment, admission, or crisis care, your perspective could directly influence how future services are designed and delivered.

Be Part of Making Care Safer

This work is funded by the Better Health & Care Hub at King’s College London and is focused on improving safety and outcomes for people in crisis.

Your lived experience can help ensure future families face fewer delays, clearer communication, and safer care pathways.

To get involved or find out more, visit:
tinyurl.com/MHAcarepathways

If you have any questions, you can contact Phoebe at:
phoebe.averill@kcl.ac.uk

Top 20 Essential Resources for Mental Health Carers

By Matthew McKenzie FRSA BEM – Carer Activist

Caring for a loved one with a mental illness is a demanding, often under-recognized role. Many unpaid carers find themselves thrust into complex scenarios, navigating mental health crises, advocating for proper support, balancing their own wellbeing, and, too often, facing these challenges in isolation. While every carer’s journey is unique, a core set of resources can make a dramatic difference between feeling overwhelmed and finding sustainable ways to cope and thrive.

This article and video unpacks those essential resources through the lens of an experienced carer activist and carer, offering both a practical hierarchy of importance and actionable insights. Using a “tier list” as a framework, we’ll explore which resources are most urgent and why, how they fit together, and tips for navigating the labyrinth of mental health care.

To watch which resources are essential for mental health carers, watch the video below.


The Tiered Approach: Prioritizing Carers’ Needs

Resources for mental health carers can be overwhelming in scope from legal advice and crisis hotlines to financial support and practical training. To create clarity, resources are placed into four tiers:

  • S Tier (Essential): Survival-level supports; absolutely critical for continued caring and crisis management.
  • A Tier (Sustaining): Highly valuable resources that keep your caring role tenable in the long run.
  • B Tier (Enhancing): Important support systems that reduce daily strain and improve quality of life but aren’t as immediately pressing.
  • C Tier (Auxiliary): Long-term stability and planning; often overlooked but still necessary.

Let’s break down what falls into each tier and how you can access and leverage these resources effectively.


Carers: Unsung Heroes, Essential Supports

Mental health carers are the invisible backbone of the support system—shouldering enormous responsibility, often without recognition or adequate support. By focusing on these critical resources and prioritizing self-care as well as advocacy, carers can find greater resilience, confidence, and sustainability.

Remember, you are not alone. Whether you access support online, through local groups, or formal agencies, reach out, ask questions, and don’t accept “no” as the final answer when it comes to your rights and wellbeing. With the right resources and support system, caring for a loved one with mental illness can be not just a challenge to survive—but a journey where you both can thrive.

Triangle of Care Community Meeting: December 2025 update

By Matthew McKenzie – TOC Community Chair

Our final Triangle of Care (ToC) Community Group meeting of the year brought together carers, professionals, and ToC members from across the UK to share updates, raise concerns, and discuss priorities for 2026 and beyond. Although Microsoft Teams provided some surprises, we made it work, thanks to teamwork and patience. The conversation was rich, heartfelt, and often very moving.

1. Opening & Agenda

As chair of the meeting, I acknowledged technical teething problems as the group used Teams for the first time in this format. Mary (ToC Programme Lead) welcomed attendees and explained the privacy-driven decision to hide email addresses, which also unfortunately hid attendees’ names. A fix will be implemented before the January meeting.

The agenda included:

  • Triangle of Care national updates (Mary)
  • Carer co-production and lived experience input (Matthew)
  • Surrey & Borders’ co-production example (postponed)
  • Research priority-setting presentation (Richard, University of Manchester)
  • Carer questions and discussion

2. Triangle of Care National Update (Mary)

Mary provided a comprehensive end-of-year update structured around ToC’s three priority areas for 2024–25.


2.1 Embedding the Relaunched Triangle of Care Framework

Growth & progress

  • 16 new members have joined the scheme since April, bringing ToC membership to over 80.
  • The first Welsh hospital achieved a ToC Star Award, prompting the creation of a new Welsh-language logo and Welsh materials.
  • A social care pilot is underway with Livewell South West, with West Hertfordshire Teaching Hospital reviewing ToC criteria for an acute setting.
  • Nine Star Awards have been achieved this year, with a further 12 annual reviews approved. Many more annual reports are pending review before year-end.

Standardising data
Mary emphasised the push for consistent reporting across Trusts, including:

  • numbers of carers identified
  • uptake of carer awareness training
  • numbers of carer champions

This will help build a national picture of impact.

Webinars
ToC’s Lunch & Learn series continues, with the recent Carers Rights Day webinar (in partnership with University of Bristol) focusing on the Nearest Relative role under the Mental Health Act (MHA). Resources are available via Carers Trust’s YouTube channel.


2.2 Young Carers: Identification & Support

A major update was the successful national policy win relating to young carers and the Mental Health Act.

Mental Health Act Reform – Safety Net for Young Carers

Following campaigning by Carers Trust, the Young Carers Alliance, and ToC members who wrote to MPs:

  • Government has agreed to update the MHA Code of Practice to require:
    • identification of children when an adult is detained
    • sharing of information about available support
    • referrals for young carer needs assessments
  • Updates to advance choice documents will require practitioners to ask about dependent children.
  • Expected implementation: Summer 2026.

This win was warmly welcomed by the group.


2.3 Racially Minoritised Carers & PCREF

Mary updated members on ToC’s work to ensure carers are fully represented in the Patient & Carer Race Equality Framework (PCREF).

Key updates

  • A national Task & Finish Group has now completed its review of the first four ToC standards; the final standard is underway.
  • Piloting of new culturally sensitive criteria is planned with 10 NHS Trusts beginning April 2026.
  • Example of early good practice: Livewell South West is implementing a new “essential data template” that includes carers, enabling services to better identify and support racially minoritised carers.
  • Carers Trust is calling for a statutory duty for NHS mental health providers to implement PCREF in full, including community governance.

2.4 Changing the Narrative on Care – New Research

Mary introduced new research (supported by the Health Foundation and Oxfam GB) titled Changing the Narrative on Care, highlighting:

  • Although 80% of the public value unpaid care, this does not translate into policy action or investment.
  • Three recommended reframes:
    1. Care is a universal experience, not a niche issue.
    2. No care without support, make support visible and tangible.
    3. Care is a partnership between families, communities and systems—not something families must do alone.

The full report is available on Carers Trust’s website.


3. Carer Involvement, Co-Production & Lived Experience (Matthew McKenzie)

I then presented an in-depth reflection on the value of authentic carer involvement, drawing on his lived experience and his role working with multiple NHS organisations.

Key points included:

  • Carers are not passive observers, they hold critical lived knowledge that improves services.
  • Real co-production goes beyond consultation; carers must be equal partners in shaping policy, documentation, training, and strategic decisions.
  • Examples Matthew gave from his own involvement:
    • redesigning welcome packs and leaflets
    • addressing confidentiality misapplication
    • involvement in recruitment panels
    • delivering training to staff at induction
    • reviewing complaints and compliments themes
    • advising on discharge processes and family-inclusive safety protocols
    • participating in research steering groups
  • Carers’ insight is especially essential in safeguarding, quality boards, and identifying service gaps often invisible to professionals.

4. Surrey & Borders Co-Production Example

A planned presentation from Surrey & Borders was postponed, as the relevant colleague could not attend with materials. They hope to present at a future meeting.


5. Research Priority Setting in Secure & Forensic Mental Health (Richard Kears)

Richard introduced a national project with the James Lind Alliance (JLA) aiming to identify the top 10 research priorities for secure and forensic mental health services across England, Scotland and Wales.

Who is the survey for?

  • Carers
  • People with lived experience of secure/forensic services
  • Staff working in these services
  • Anyone indirectly connected (victims, families)

Purpose

To ensure future mental health research is led by the real concerns of those most affected, not only by academics or pharmaceutical interests.

Process

  1. National survey gathering research questions.
  2. Analysis to identify common themes.
  3. Second, more focused survey to refine priorities.
  4. National workshops with carers, staff and people with lived experience to finalise the top 10.

A QR code and flyer were shared for distribution. The group expressed strong support.


6. Attendee Discussion & Questions

This was the richest section of the meeting, with many heartfelt contributions. The themes below reflect the key concerns raised.

6.1 Scotland & UK-wide ToC Alignment

A carer asked why Scotland’s ToC framework is separate and not integrated into the UK ToC accreditation model.
Mary explained:

  • Scotland currently uses ToC only as a free policy framework.
  • Implementing the accreditation model in Scotland would require groundwork to assess willingness and ability of providers to fund membership.
  • Integration is being discussed but is not imminent.

6.2 Clarity on Co-Production

Several carers voiced concerns that:

  • “Co-production” is often used as a buzzword.
  • Some NHS Trusts label work as co-produced after completing it.
  • Carers need clarity on what ToC means when using the term.

Mary responded that ToC uses a ladder of engagement, distinguishing:

  • carer engagement
  • carer involvement
  • full co-production

Carers Trust is developing a formal principles-based statement on involvement for future meetings.


6.3 Older Carers: Visibility, Support & Inequalities

The majority of carer questions focused on the unmet needs of older adult carers, many of whom are supporting people with severe mental illness—not dementia—and often have been caring 20–40 years.

Attendees reported:

  • Feeling “invisible” within both policy and services.
  • Being incorrectly grouped under “older carers = dementia”.
  • Their own poor health affecting their caring ability.
  • Increasing struggle to get responses from professionals.
  • Serious concerns about who will care for their loved ones when they die.
  • Feeling less heard as they age, compared with younger carers or newer voices.

One carer (age 78) shared:

“I can’t retire from caring. Benefits stop at 65, but the caring doesn’t.”

Another said:

“We have to shout louder as older women to be heard—and still we aren’t.”

Mary acknowledged the seriousness of these issues and committed to:

  • bringing older carers’ concerns into ongoing ToC work
  • exploring dedicated guidance and better mainstreaming within the ToC standards
  • sharing good practice on carer contingency planning in upcoming meetings

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I also reiterated the group’s role in surfacing policy gaps and influencing future national lobbying.


6.4 Carer Registration & Meeting Access

Several carers raised issues with:

  • The length of the ToC sign-up form
  • Not receiving meeting links despite signing up
  • Verification barriers when joining Teams

Mary agreed to:

  • review and shorten the form
  • clarify which fields are optional
  • address email deliverability issues
  • adjust MS Teams settings to reduce joining friction while maintaining security

6.5 Concerns About Confidentiality Misuse

One carer reported that in a CQC meeting at an NHS Trust, raising questions about communication was dismissed as “confidentiality”, preventing meaningful dialogue.
I then encouraged carers to bring such examples into:

  • ToC Star peer reviews
  • Carer involvement forums
  • Local advocacy routes

He noted that misuse of confidentiality is a common and unacceptable barrier and must be challenged.


6.6 Petition on Antipsychotic Medication Research

Carers highlighted concerns about:

  • long-term prescribing of antipsychotics
  • lack of regular medication review
  • inadequate research into long-term effects

A carer shared a petition calling for investigation of psychiatric medications. Richard noted that he had signed and shared it previously.


7. Closing Remarks

Matthew thanked all attendees for their honesty, passion and persistence:

“Carers’ voices shape policies and improve care. That is exactly what this group is here to do.”

Mary acknowledged:

  • the importance of every concern raised
  • the need to better support older carers
  • improvements to ToC communications and meeting accessibility
  • that the next meeting will be in January (provisionally 19th)

The meeting closed with gratitude from carers who said they felt heard, supported, and connected.


National Grief Awareness Week 2025: Growing With Grief

By Matthew McKenzie, A Caring Mind

This week, we come together to recognise something deeply human, yet often hidden: grief and the people who carry it long after the world has moved on.

I’ve created a short video exploring the emotional reality of bereavement, with a special focus on unpaid carers. These are the people who quietly give their time, energy, and love to support someone through illness… and who are often left to grieve in silence when that journey ends.

My hope is that this helps spark conversations, reduce stigma, and remind anyone grieving that you are not alone.


If you or someone you know needs support, these organisations can help:

🔗 The Good Grief Trusthttps://www.thegoodgrieftrust.org
🔗 AtaLosshttps://www.ataloss.org
🔗 Muslim Bereavement Support Servicehttps://www.mbss.org.uk
🔗 Jewish Bereavement Counselling Servicehttps://jbcs.org.uk
🔗 The Ubele Initiative (African & Caribbean communities)https://www.ubele.org
🔗 Cruse Bereavement Support – South Asian Support (via specially trained volunteers)https://www.cruse.org.uk
🔗 Switchboard LGBT+ Bereavement Supporthttps://switchboard.lgbt


Let’s work together to make sure every bereaved person, especially unpaid carers so they is heard, supported, and understood.
#GrowingWithGrief | #GriefSupport | #UnpaidCarers | #Wellbeing

Carols, Community and the Quiet Strength of Carers – Reflections from the Carers UK Christmas Service 2025

By Matthew McKenzie

On 4th December 2025, I had the privilege of attending the Service of Christmas Carols and Readings for Carers UK (for their 60th anniversary) at The King’s Chapel of the Savoy.

As many will know, Carers UK is a national charity that offers advice, information, and advocacy for unpaid carers, people who look after a family member or friend due to illness, disability, mental health challenges or frailty.

Their work is vital and ranges from campaigning for carers’ rights, to shaping policy, to providing emotional and practical support.

As someone who has spent years amplifying carers’ voices, and as someone who has been a carer myself, I always find moments like this grounding. They remind me that carers are so often hidden and deserve spaces of recognition, reflection, and community.

I couldnt capture the whole event, so a lot of it is from memory,

The King’s Chapel of the Savoy, with its royal heritage and intimate atmosphere, felt like the perfect place for such a service. The carved wood, the vivid ceiling, the echo of voices old and new it all contributed to an environment where carers could feel honoured rather than overlooked.

A Service That Told carer Stories

The order of service blended scripture, poetry, classic carols, and carers’ own words. Each part spoke to a different dimension of caring, love, sacrifice, resilience, loss, hope.

Here is a clear, concise list of the Carers UK Christmas Carol Service Order, based on the programme you shared.


Some of the order of Service – Carers UK Christmas Carols and Readings

  1. Carol – Once in Royal David’s City
  2. Welcome & The Bidding Prayer by The Revd Canon Thomas Woodhouse MA
  3. Welcome on Behalf of Carers UK by Helen Walker, Chief Executive
  4. Gospel According to Luke, Chapter 2, Verses 8–20 Reader: Rt Hon Sir Ed Davey MP
  5. Reading – Gospel According to Luke, Chapter 2, Verses 1–7, Reader: The Rt Rev Rob Wickham
  6. Reading – Extract from A Christmas Carol, Reader: Jaycee La Bouche, a carer
  7. The Blessing by The Revd Canon Thomas Woodhouse MA

Below are some reflections on the elements that struck me the most, based on the transcript provided.

I started noting down things when hearing the classic Clement Clarke Moore poem brought a sense of nostalgia and gentleness. For many carers, Christmas isn’t always restful, it can be emotionally heavy or practically demanding. Yet this reading reminded me of the grounding power of tradition.

There was also a Carer’s Poem – “I Carried Him” (Martin Seare), which was read by Tiggy Walker. The poem captured something familiar to many carers, which is the sense of being the energy source behind someone else’s survival. The feeling of being nurse, advocate, motivator, protector, and emotional anchor, all at once.

Jaycee’s reading from A Christmas Carol brought a heartfelt authenticity to the service, grounding Dickens’ message of compassion in real lived experience. Hearing a carer deliver those words reminded me how powerfully stories of renewal that echo the emotional journeys many carers navigate every day.

We also heard an extract from A Christmas Carol, where hearing Dickens’ words about Scrooge’s transformation felt fitting. Carers often live in a world full of systems that need to “wake up” to their realities, these systems overdue for compassion and change.

There was another Carer’s Poem – “Hands That Once Held Me” (Aaliyah O’Neill), which was read by Pippa Haywood. This poem honoured the emotional labour that accompanies caring, the grief, the patience, the love that persists through fading timelines and shifting identities.

Walking around after the service, we were provided with wine and mince pies (I could only handle one glass of mine), but ate a lot of mince pies. I also noticed on a nearby table, beautifully wrapped with red ribbon, were copies of books written by individuals deeply connected to the world of caring.

Tiggy Walker’s Both Sides Now offered a tender, candid exploration of love, loss, and the emotional realities of caring, while Why I Care highlighted personal reflections on the value and challenges of supporting others by Sir Ed Davy. Seeing these books at the event felt fitting, they extended the service’s message by giving carers stories they could see themselves in, learn from, and feel strengthened by.

Carols – Collective Voice, Collective Strength

Carols like “Once in Royal David’s City,” “O Little Town of Bethlehem,” “In the Bleak Midwinter,” “O Come All Ye Faithful,” and “Hark the Herald Angels Sing” took on added meaning.

Singing these in chapel reminded me that carers often feel alone, but they are part of a much larger story. Carols have always been about shared experience, hope, and unity. That unity was felt strongly throughout the chapel.

A Blessing for Carers

Towards the end, The Revd Canon Thomas Woodhouse offered prayers acknowledging:

  • those who care
  • those who are cared for
  • those who grieve
  • those who find joy in service
  • those who struggle silently

What the Service Meant to Me as a Carer

I left the event feeling the followng:

Being Seen

Carers rarely hear their stories reflected back to them with such respect. This service did that.

Connected

Being surrounded by fellow carers, supporters, faith leaders, and advocates reminded me that we are not navigating these challenges alone.

Renewed

Christmas can be difficult for many carers, i am running a few carer groups to reduce isolation, but this service offered a moment to pause, reflect, and recharge spiritually and emotionally.

Motivated

Each poem and reading reinforced why I continue to campaign and raise awareness: because carers’ lives, struggles, and contributions must be brought into public consciousness.

Final Thoughts

The Carers UK Christmas Service wasn’t just a festive gathering, it was a space that lifted the voices and experiences of carers into the light.

Carers UK continues to be a champion for those who give so much of themselves. And events like this remind us that recognition, community, and hope are powerful gifts.

I left the chapel gratefull for the stories shared, for the solidarity felt, and for the reminder that carers are, and always have been, at the heart of what makes our communities truly compassionate.

BONUS : A small tour of the chapel.

History in the Woodwork: Discovering the Stories Behind the Savoy Chapel’s Symbols

One unexpected part of attending the Carers UK Christmas Service at The King’s Chapel of the Savoy was the opportunity to explore some of the chapel’s remarkable historical artefacts. As a carer and someone who works in carer advocacy, I often reflect on continuity on how the past shapes the present. Walking around the chapel, I realised the walls were not just decorative; they were storytellers.

These objects and emblems remind us that the Savoy Chapel is a living part of royal, national, and personal history. And in many ways, the quiet endurance reflected in these items echoes the resilience of carers across the country.


1. The Heraldic Plaques on the Chapel Walls

Along the wooden panelled walls were beautifully detailed heraldic plaques, each representing past members or senior figures associated with the Royal Victorian Order or individuals linked to the chapel’s long history of royal service.

The Royal Victorian Order was established in 1896 by Queen Victoria as a way of personally recognising service to the monarch. That personal element, service based on loyalty, commitment, and relationship. That i felt especially meaningful as someone attending the Carers UK event.

Each plaque typically includes:

  • A coat of arms, with symbols representing the individual’s heritage, achievements, or values.
  • A Latin motto, often referencing duty, honour, or faith.
  • A record of rank or title, showing how the person was tied to the Crown or Order.

Standing before these plaques, I was reminded that service, whether to the Crown or to a loved one is always part of a bigger human story.


2. The Book of Remembrance

Displayed under protective glass, the Book of Remembrance is one of the most moving artefacts in the Savoy Chapel. It is handwritten and illuminated in a traditional style, much like medieval manuscripts.

The book honours individuals connected to the chapel, recording their names, contributions, and sometimes short dedications. Every entry is crafted with care, respecting the memory of those who served their communities or the Royal Household.


3. The Stalls with Coats of Arms of Officers and Servants of the Order

In the choir stalls, more coats of arms decorate the woodwork. These represent officers, registrars, chaplains, and others who have served the Royal Victorian Order over the decades.

Each shield is different, but together they form a visual tapestry of dedication. They signal continuity across generations much like how caring roles pass through families, communities, and time.

You can almost imagine the individuals who once occupied these seats, each carrying out their duties with diligence. Their heraldry remains here as a testament to lives spent in service.


4. The Mantle and Insignia of a Knight Grand Cross of the Royal Victorian Order

One of the most striking displays was the ceremonial mantle worn by a Knight Grand Cross of the Royal Victorian Order (GCVO). The deep blue and crimson robe, gold tassels, and the star emblem reflect the highest grade of this honour.

The mantle’s presence is not merely decorative:

  • The GCVO is awarded personally by the monarch, not via government recommendation.
  • It recognises exceptional service to the Crown.
  • The Star, Badge, and Collar each represent centuries-old tradition.

5. The Royal Victorian Order and Medal Display

This framed display explains the different grades of the Royal Victorian Order (RVO) and shows examples of the insignia, including:

  • Knight/Dame Grand Cross (GCVO)
  • Knight/Dame Commander (KCVO/DCVO)
  • Commander (CVO)
  • Lieutenant (LVO)
  • Member (MVO)
  • Royal Victorian Medal (RVM) in Gold, Silver, and Bronze

The RVM is unique because it honours personal service by staff who support the Royal Household directly, often throughout a lifetime. The photos in the display include historical figures wearing the ribbons and badges, underscoring the order’s strong ties to loyalty and lifelong commitment.


Why These Artefacts Mattered at a Carers Event

These historical items weren’t just museum pieces; they told a story of service, loyalty, remembrance, and quiet strength. I think in that sense, they perfectly framed the Carers UK Christmas Service.

National Ethnic mental health Carer Forum : November Update 2025

Chaired by Matthew McKenzie, Lived-Experience Carer

The latest meeting of the National Ethnic Mental Health Carer Forum brought together unpaid minority carers, community partners and four NHS mental Trusts (Avon & Whiltshire were kind enough to be included to update) to explore progress toward the Patient & Carer Race Equality Framework (PCREF), share challenges, and elevate lived-experience voices. As always, I ensured the space remained honest, fast-paced and rooted in what truly matters to ethnic minority carers: being heard, understood and included.

My latest blog for the November forum captures key highlights from each Trust, along with questions raised by attendees, reflecting the critical concerns and lived realities that continue to shape PCREF work across the country.


1. Avon & Wiltshire Mental Health Partnership Trust (AWP)

Focus: Triangle of Care, PCREF oversight, carer champion roles.

Avon & Wiltshire outlined how their PCREF programme is being driven through a clear governance structure, including a central Oversight Group and locality-based meetings. These layers ensure that learning from communities and staff filters upward and influences whole-trust priorities. Their collaboration with Nilaari (I think that is what their called), a long-standing community organisation supporting racially marginalised groups, has been key in grounding their PCREF work in authentic community voice.

A central pillar of their presentation was the strengthening of the Triangle of Care and carer-related PCREF oversight. They recognised that carer involvement cannot rely on goodwill or isolated champions; it requires structurally defined roles, written responsibilities, and consistent organisational expectations. The Trust is working on ensuring that every team and ward embeds a carer champion, whose purpose is not to “do everything for carers”, but to support cultural change within the workforce so that carers are recognised as equal partners.

They emphasised the importance of building staff capacity in cultural humility and safe conversations about race. AWP acknowledged that staff often feel unprepared to discuss ethnicity, discrimination or identity with carers. To address this, the Trust has created psychologically safe internal spaces, particularly for racially marginalised staff—to process experiences and explore how structural and interpersonal inequalities impact both staff wellbeing and patient care. This cultural environment is foundational to PCREF implementation because it shapes how confidently staff engage with diverse carers.

Key Points:

  • Carer champions must support, not replace, teams in working with carers.
  • Emphasis on psychological safety for racially marginalised staff and carers.
  • Encouraging honest conversations around race, trauma, and culture across staff teams.

Questions raised by attendees:

  1. How do you embed cultural awareness within staff teams, not just for carers?
    – Concern that staff dynamics and cultural differences must be addressed to create consistent culturally responsive care.
  2. How do staff and leaders hold ‘difficult conversations’ about race and safety?
    – Attendees wanted clarity on how psychological safety is practiced and how managers are supported.

🌟 2. Birmingham & Solihull Mental Health NHS FT

(Children & Young People’s Division – “Co-STARS” programme)

Birmingham & Solihull (CYP) presented one of the most detailed and emotionally grounded PCREF programmes, shaped heavily by lived-experience research with Black diaspora families. Their PCREF priorities, knowing our communities, transforming with communities, and delivering care that works reflect a commitment to embedding cultural responsiveness at every step. Their partnership with the University of Birmingham and Forward Thinking Birmingham has produced the Co-STARS project, a blend of lived-experience-led community work and staff training modules.

A major part of their PCREF advancement comes from working intensively with families to capture how racialised parents feel when using services. The Trust shared powerful testimonies from Black carers who described needing to “emotionally self-regulate” in meetings to avoid being labelled angry, unstable or cold. Parents also highlighted the emotional labour of protecting their children from stereotypes such as the “angry Black boy”, as well as fears of being adultified or dismissed. These insights have directly reshaped responses from clinical teams and informed the development of carers’ passports and safe spaces.

Birmingham & Solihull also emphasised building structures to ensure that their care pathways become culturally competent and adaptive. They are embedding PCREF champions across all clinical pathways, from eating disorders to psychosis and autism, ensuring diversity and inclusion principles shape every aspect of assessment, treatment and review. The Trust is also developing e-learning on culturally responsive practice, and expanding identity-specific support spaces (e.g., Black Carers Groups and new plans for Asian carers’ spaces). This multi-layered approach reflects a commitment to PCREF that is both structural and deeply relational.

Key Points:

  • Embedding culturally competent conversations within CYP teams.
  • Developing a Black Carers Group and safe spaces for racialised parent groups.
  • New e-learning on culturally responsive practice (from Co-STARS package).
  • Use of carer passports to ensure carers feel like equal partners.
  • Strong focus on how ethnic minority parents feel judged or misread by services (e.g., “angry Black woman,” “cold mother”) – themes drawn directly from carer focus groups.
  • Recognising adultification, stereotyping, and the emotional labour families perform.

Questions raised by attendees:

  1. What about older adult Black communities?
    – Carers questioned how older Black adults, shaped by decades of racism, would be included in PCREF work.
  2. Are you working with the police on cultural awareness?
    – Concerns around disproportionate use of Section 136 and stereotypes (e.g., assuming someone is “aggressive” because they speak loudly or gesture).
  3. How will parent–carer voices shape service pathways and outcomes across all diagnoses (e.g., autism, psychosis)?

3. Sussex Partnership NHS Foundation Trust

Sussex Partnership presented PCREF as a three-pillared programme: data, co-production & engagement, and workforce development. Their first priority is improving ethnicity and protected characteristics data, which they acknowledged has historically been inconsistent. Sussex is launching a behavioural-change campaign that involves interviewing service users from minority backgrounds about why they may decline to share ethnicity, alongside staff interviews to understand documentation issues. Their goal is a transparent baseline from which meaningful PCREF action can be driven.

The Trust also described significant investment in a new data infrastructure via Power BI dashboards. These tools will pull together real-time information on areas such as restraint, Section 132 rights, and involuntary detention by ethnicity. The Trust stressed that PCREF cannot function without high-quality data because inequalities must be clearly visible and accessible to teams at every level—from ward managers to executive boards. Their future ambition is to enable quicker identification of disparities and faster interventions that prevent harm.

Sussex’s strongest focus was on building genuine co-production through their Expert Delivery Group (EDG). Unlike past approaches where community partners were only consulted, the EDG is designed as a collaborative decision-making space. Sussex acknowledged up front that phase 1 of PCREF planning did not fully embody equal partnership, and committed to ensuring that phase 2 will be co-produced from the ground up. The EDG will define what co-production means, co-design PCREF implementation plans, and shape updates that reflect community priorities, trust recovery, and anti-racist aspirations.

Key Points:

  • A behavioural-change campaign to improve ethnicity data recording (currently 65% compliance).
  • Development of Power BI dashboards for rapid inequality analysis.
  • Defining anti-racist and cultural competency skills for staff, tied to new EDI training.
  • Creation of the Expert Delivery Group (EDG) as a collaborative community–trust space.

Questions raised by attendees:

  1. Is this “real” co-production or consultation?
    – Attendees challenged Sussex on whether the initial plan was created with the community or presented to them.
  2. How will service users and carers hold equal power within co-production?
  3. How will your anti-racism ambitions be demonstrated externally to communities?
    – Attendees expressed concerns that staff training alone does not reassure communities.
  4. How will carers’ needs be embedded in PCREF (Triangle of Care)?

🌟 4. Kent & Medway Mental Health NHS Trust

Presenter: Kamellia (with contribution from Harriet – Lived Experience)

Kent & Medway showcased a comprehensive and governance-driven PCREF structure supported by their Equity for All Assurance Group. The Trust has embedded health inequalities into its broader strategy and is working to ensure that PCREF, protected characteristics data and health equity are woven into everyday practice. With the Trust’s newly updated name and identity, PCREF sits at the centre of a renewed commitment to equitable access, outcomes and patient experience across Kent and Medway.

Their PCREF progress includes delivering cultural competence training to 259 senior leaders, a significant investment in shifting leadership behaviour and expectations. They have also identified major data disparities in areas such as complaints, where ethnicity recording is only around 30%. To address this, they are rolling out the About Me form across their clinical system (Rio), which streamlines demographic and protected characteristics documentation for both carers and patients. This step is being supported by staff training designed to build confidence in discussing sensitive identity-related topics.

Kent & Medway also highlighted the expansion of their new Involvement & Engagement Team, which links directly with communities across East, West and North Kent. They are testing a Health Inequalities Toolkit, improving carer experience data collection, and creating new Family, Friends & Carers forms that capture protected characteristics, communication needs, and whether a carers pack was offered. The Trust’s approach is detailed, structural and long-term, aiming to embed PCREF as part of “business as usual” rather than a separate initiative.

Key Points:

  • 259 senior leaders trained in cultural competence.
  • New About Me demographic/protected characteristics form launching trust-wide.
  • Major data gaps identified (e.g., only 30% ethnicity data for complaints).
  • New Involvement & Engagement Team connecting with community groups.
  • Testing the Health Inequalities Toolkit .
  • New Family, Friends & Carers Information Form including carer-pack tracking.

Questions raised by attendees:

  1. Do you provide information in languages other than English?
    – Carers stressed that if translations don’t exist, PCREF is inaccessible from the start.
  2. How will carers be supported to attend meetings given their unpredictable caring responsibilities?
  3. How will you gather demographic data for carers when many do not have Rio records?
  4. How will minority groups be reached in areas where the Trust’s population is overwhelmingly White British?

5. Carer Support Organisation (Kent & Medway Carers Support)

Presenter: Donna Green (involve Kent)

Key Points:

  • They run trust-wide carer experience groups and targeted workshops.
  • Emphasised difficulty for carers to attend meetings due to constant demands.
  • Highlighted the need for multiple approaches, including creative well-being sessions.

Closing Reflections from the Forum

I wrapped up the session acknowledging:

  • The strong desire across Trusts to improve PCREF delivery.
  • The pressure to progress quickly without losing sight of lived experience leadership.
  • The need to bring CQC into future meetings for transparency around expectations.
  • The importance of ethnic minority carers having a forum that values honesty over polished presentations.

Final Thoughts

This month’s forum demonstrated that while progress continues nationally, there remain shared challenges across NHS Mental HealthTrusts:

  • Recording ethnicity and protected characteristics meaningfully
  • Embedding anti-racism beyond training modules
  • Meeting the needs of Black, Asian and other racialised carers
  • Co-production that is real, not rhetorical
  • Involving carers whose time and emotional capacity are already stretched
  • Ensuring safety, trust and humanity in every interaction.

Above all, the session showed that ethnic minority carers are not passive observers they’re leading, questioning, shaping and insisting on accountability at every step.


Hospital Carer Discharge Meeting – November Update 2025

Chaired by: Matthew McKenzie – Lived Experience Carer

Welcome to the November 2025 update of the Hosptial Carer discharge group. The Hospital Carer Discharge Group is a collaborative network chaired by lived-experience carer Matthew McKenzie, bringing together unpaid carers, carer-centre teams, hospital staff and local authority representatives to improve how carers are identified, supported and involved throughout a patient’s hospital journey.

The group provides a space to share updates from hospitals and carers’ organisations, highlight challenges in discharge processes, strengthen links between community and acute services, and promote consistent carer-focused practices such as using the Carers Hospital Discharge Toolkit, developing standard operating procedures, and raising staff awareness.

The November meeting focused updates from the South East London Carer Standard Operating Procedure pilot, improving carer identification, strengthening links between community and hospital services, and practical challenges in engaging hospital teams.

For those who don’t know, In the context of the Hospital Carer Discharge an SOP is a step-by-step, structured process that hospital staff follow to ensure unpaid carers are identified, informed, supported and included consistently during a patient’s hospital stay and discharge.

It usually outlines:

  • How to record, communicate and follow up on carer involvement
  • Who is responsible at each stage (nurses, discharge teams, carer services)
  • What actions must be taken (e.g., asking about caring roles, sharing information, making referrals)
  • When these actions should happen (admission, treatment phase, discharge planning)

Who Attended

The session was well attended by a mix of carers, hospital representatives, and carer-centre staff, including:

Carer representatives

  • Matthew McKenzie – Chair; lived experience mental health carer; Carers UK, Carers Trust & NHS England Citizens Advisory Group volunteer.
  • Caroline – Lewisham carer, Healthwatch Lewisham member & Patient Experience Committee representative.
  • Various peer supporters, carers involved in local networks and PPGs.

Carer support organisations

  • Carers Hub Lambeth
  • Tower Hamlets Carer Centre
  • Wandsworth Carer Centre
  • North Central London Carers Support Project

Apologies

  • Sutton Carers Centre
  • Richmond Carers Centre
  • Greenwich Carers Centre
  • Harrow Carers Centre
  • Bromley Well
  • IMAGO – Lewisham carers Centre
  • Bexley Carers Support
  • Involve Kent

Hospitals & NHS staff

  • Queen Elizabeth Hospital (Lewisham & Greenwich NHS Trust)
  • Public Service Consultants (PSC)
  • Bromley, Lambeth, Lewisham, Greenwich council leads (mentioned in discussion)
  • St George’s Hospital (GESH) – references to staff

Meeting Overview

  • The growing importance of carer involvement in hospitals, especially with mental health pressures and changes to the Mental Health Act.
  • The group’s purpose: sharing updates, strengthening links between carers and hospitals, and improving the implementation of the Carers Hospital Discharge Toolkit.

Key Presentation – Update on the South East London Carer SOP Pilot

Speaker: Public Service Consultants (PSC)

The major portion of the meeting focused on the pilot testing of a new 11-step Standard Operating Procedure for identifying and supporting unpaid carers across hospitals in South East London.

🔹 Hospitals involved in the SOP pilot

  1. King’s College Hospital – Acute Medicine ward
  2. University Hospital Lewisham – Hawthorne (older patients) and Alder (specialty medicine) wards
  3. Princess Royal University Hospital (Bromley) – Frailty Unit via Transfer of Care Hub

🔹 Key outcomes

  • King’s College Hospital saw the strongest progress.
    • Nurses proactively engaged unpaid carers.
    • All leaflets and materials were distributed within weeks.
    • Carer details (with consent) were passed to Lambeth Carers Hub.
    • Nursing staff requested feedback loops to see the impact of referrals.
  • Lewisham Hospital
    • Progress slower initially; improved after site visits.
    • Ward managers highly supportive and embedding SOP practices.
    • Lewisham Council exploring funding for an in-hospital carers support team.
  • Princess Royal (Bromley)
    • SOP and leaflets now shared with the frailty unit.
    • Council to continue taking work forward.

🔹 Overall reflections

  • Hospitals still experience heavy winter pressures and staff capacity issues.
  • Engagement differs widely between NHS trusts.
  • Many ward teams had never seen the London Carers Toolkit, indicating a need for simplification.
  • Councils intend to continue cross-borough meetings after PSC’s involvement ends.

Issues & Discussion Points

1. Gaps in consistency across hospital sites

  • Queen Elizabeth Hospital (QEH) had not been part of the pilot, they have requested to be included
  • Staff expressed interest in adopting SOP materials and joining future rollout.

2. Carer diversity and training needs

Caroline highlighted the need for:

  • Training reflecting different care needs: LD, dementia, mental health, elderly carers.
  • Cultural diversity considerations in how carers interact with hospital teams.
  • Better alignment with Lewisham & Greenwich’s Compassion in Care programme.

3. Current SOP scope limitations

  • SOP starts at the ward stage, but carers need involvement pre-admission and post-discharge.
  • Best practice from NICE and the national toolkit emphasises whole-journey support.

4. Hospital culture & resistance

Carer-centre staff described feeling:

  • Like a “hindrance” in MDT or discharge meetings
  • Sometimes unwelcome or blocked from engaging on wards
  • Fighting clinical priorities vs. carer rights
  • Still needing major awareness-raising to reduce resistance

A carer noted power imbalances and the risk that carers are seen as “barriers to discharge” rather than essential partners.


Updates from Carer Centres & Hospital Teams

Carers Hub Lambeth

  • Significant increase in referrals, especially from King’s.
  • Engagement seems weaker at Guy’s & St Thomas’, it looks to be still pushing for a stronger carers strategy there, but hopeful the strategy should pick up.
  • Working with ward rounds and direct conversations with carers.

North Central London Carers Project

Working across 8 hospital sites, possilbly

  • Royal Free Hospital
  • Barnet Hospital
  • North Middlesex Hospital
  • Chase Farm Hospital
  • The Whittington Hospital
  • University College Hospital
  • St Pancras Rehabilitation (Camden and West London)
  • Community Central London Trust 
  • North London Foundation Trust (Mental Health)

Updates include:

  • A hospital “menu” to track progress across the toolkit (training, comms, discharge planning).
  • Embedding carers into induction programmes.
  • Co-authoring discharge documentation at St Pancras Rehab Centre with dedicated “carer sections”.
  • Upcoming use of Cerner electronic records system to automatically flag carers.

Tower Hamlets Carer Centre

Carer representative based at Royal London Hospital (east London)

Challenges include:

  • Slow referrals & reliance on staff awareness
  • Some carers only identified at crisis stage
  • Need to expand the carers passport across Royal London
  • Hackney pilot ends in March concerns about future funding

Wandsworth Carer Centre / St George’s

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  • Developing carer awareness training with Patient Experience Team
  • Growth in referrals after training sessions, though staff forget over time
  • Plan to expand ward coverage
  • As chair I shared St George’s new Carers Charter as a tool for accountability

Carer-Led Developments in Primary Care

A group of Lewisham unpaid carers has begun major work with GP practices, including:

  • Creating a PCN-wide carers information pack
  • Ensuring carer champions in GP surgeries
  • Working with pharmacies to distribute information
  • Improving identification on GP systems
  • Exploring alignment with Lewisham’s new Carers Action Plan

Plans for the Future

  • More invitations to NHS carer strategy leads
  • Sharing SOP materials with non-pilot hospitals where possible.
  • Matthew to link contacts across councils and hospitals for ongoing monitoring, being the following boroughs e.g.

Lewisham

  • Assistant Director – Adult Mental Health & Wellbeing
  • Joint Commissioner – Adult Mental Health & Wellbeing

Greenwich

  • Strategic Commissioning Lead
  • Commissioning Lead for Carers

Bromley

  • Assistant Director – Commissioning
  • Commissioning Officer

Bexley

  • Service Manager – Adult Social Care

Lambeth

  • Integrated Commissioning Manager – Adults and Health

Southwark

  • Strategic Programmes Manager
  • Commissioning Manager

Medium-term aims

  • Push for in-hospital carer support teams in Lewisham & Greenwich.
  • Expand training and embed carers into staff induction.
  • Improve pre-admission and discharge-planning pathways on carer identification and involvement for familes and carers.
  • Stronger collaboration between LD nurses, dementia teams, and carers services.

Longer-term aspirations

  • Greater consistency across trusts
  • Unified carers strategy within each hospital
  • A system where carers are routinely recognised, supported, and involved in decisions

Closing Remarks

As cchair I closed the meeting by thanking attendees and acknowledging the collective effort to improve carers’ experiences across London hospitals. I reaffirmed the importance of:

  • Making carers visible
  • Ensuring rights are upheld
  • Strengthening trust–carer relationships
  • Carrying learning into the new year

The next meeting will be scheduled in January, with hopes of smoother cross-hospital collaboration in 2024.

Reflections on the West Sussex Community Brain Health & Carers Rights Day Event

By Matthew McKenzie – Carer & Carer Activist

On Thursday 20th November, I had the privilege of attending and speaking at the Memory, Wellbeing and Brain Health event hosted at Broadfield Community Centre in Crawley. Organised by Carers Support West Sussex, the event formed part of Carers Rights Day, bringing together carers, professionals, community teams, and people living with dementia for a day of learning, connection, and support.

Although I couldn’t stay for the full programme due to travelling to another Carers Rights Day engagement later that afternoon, I was grateful to take part in the early sessions and witness the energy and compassion that shaped the whole day.

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November 2025 Carers News — New Release from A Caring Mind

Welcome to the latest edition of my unpaid carer newsletter for November
This month’s release is full of insights, stories and resources to support carers across the UK.

Read the full newsletter here:
🔗 November Edition of A Caring Mind News


🔥 5 Hot News Stories & Must-Reads in This Issue

1. Carers Rights Day 2025 — What You Need to Know

A clear rundown of carers’ legal rights, financial support, and where to get free advice this year.

Carers Rights Day 2025 – “Know Your Rights, Use Your Rights!” – Carers Trust

It’s Time to Talk Differently about Unpaid Care – Carers Trust

The cost of caring – the impact of caring across carers’ lives

University contributes to national initiative supporting young adult carers

2. New Research on the Mental Health of Unpaid Carers

A powerful new study highlights the emotional and physical toll of long-term caring, plus steps carers can take to protect their wellbeing.

Carers and empowerment in the UK: a critical reflection

Judgements about carer assessments for carers of people with dementia: case vignette study 

3. Tech Support for Carers: Free Tools You Can Use

This month we feature free digital tools and apps that help with scheduling, wellbeing tracking, and managing complex care tasks.

Using TEC to support unpaid or informal carers webinar – Derbyshire Carers

How Technology Helps Carers in 2025 – Apps, AI & Smart Tools Explained

4. The focus on Patient Carer Race Equality Framework

Ethnic and minority carer information and updates

Race equity in mental health: the systemic, legislative change we need

Hampshire & Isle of Wight Healthcare – “NHS Trust launches bold Anti-Racist Action Plan to tackle inequality and discrimination”

Hope, progress, and accountability: Tackling racial inequalities in mental health together – NHS England

An Afternoon with PCREF – Event

Making Time for Black Mental Health: A Black Male Carer’s Reflection

5. Inspirational Reads: Books & Resources That Lift the Spirit

From lived-experience stories to practical guides, we spotlight the best reads for empowering carers during the winter months.


Also in This Issue

  • My brand-new audiobook, The Poetry Book of Mental Health Caring, featuring poems written by unpaid carers across the UK
  • Upcoming events, workshops and support groups
  • Community stories and reflections

Read the full November edition here:
🔗 https://mailchi.mp/f8473b2dac00/carer-news-from-a-caring-mind-12848380